Mind that bus.What is the best advice anyone ever gave you?
';dont be a trouble magnet';What is the best advice anyone ever gave you?
Not to stress too much about GCSEs because in a few years time, people won't care about what you got for them, only what your recent job was. So long as you get good enough grades to go to college that's okay.
people don't have to like you , and you don't have to like a person.
To belief in myself and to realise that I can do things and that there is no such thing as can't.
Taking this advice has helped me over the last couple of years to develop as a person and to go further in life. When i felt that i couldn't do something, i would sit and think of the advice and say i can do it and figure out how to overcome the i cant do it bit.
learn to be tough!
dont eat the yellow snow
here drink this.
';Get over it.';
Dont be a suck up ! Other people only think less of you. Get what you want through hard work %26amp; determination
The best advice usually redeems one from trouble
'Don't save things for best' because you will never get full use out of them or if it is clothing by the time you get round to wearing the item it will be out of date, or faded, or eaten by moths.
never regret anything, just reflect on it and alter it for the next time..............
...........another was 'don't do it' on my hen night.......should have listened lol
Say what you mean and mean what you say - particularly relevant to child rearing
stay in school and don't do drugs
The best advice i ever got was off of a friend of mine. I was going through a hard time, and she said to me 'Kayleigh everything in this world happens for a reason, no body can tell you what this reason is, only you yourself can tell you what this reason is. I know that you cannot help to think that it is totally unfair that this has happened to you, but at the end of the day it is making you a much stronger person, and you are becoming more and more confident in everything that you do. I know that at times you want to give up on life, and finish everything as you do not think that your life is worth living anymore, but if you did finish it all, yes you are getting rid of all of your problems and troubles, but what about the people who love and care about you, how are they going to feel, and most of all the person that has made you feel like this has won. Kayleigh, you are a strong young woman, no matter what your sexuality is, what colour your skin is or even what you believe in, all you have to do is to try and cope with your demons and troubles, whilst holding your head up high, and telling yourself that you are stronger for this ever happening to you.' So i owe This person everything for giving me this small bit of advice, as if it was not for her, i probably wouldn't be around typing this now
That I am not a carpet and I am worth more....say it to myself every morning.
Save money every month in a savings account and NEVER spend it. Wise advice - try being 50 or 60 with absolutely no money in the bank. Thank heavens I listened to my gran.
Trust nobody.
treat others as you would like to be treated and my gran said never change a thing if ppl don't like you they can take it up with me !!! God I miss her
time is never wasted only mis-used
and
only touch paperwork once - never have a pending tray
Always wear clean undies
Thursday, August 19, 2010
What is the best advice you have ever ignored?
Not to answer questions from schoolchildren - but I still doWhat is the best advice you have ever ignored?
Dont paint everyone guy with the same brush.... to elaborate, after being in a string of disasterous relationships which reduced my trust in guys to zero, when I would meet a decent guy Id tar them with the same brush.... my lack of trust broke up a lot of relationships with really good guys that just couldnt take my paranoia, even today Ive met a great guy that has been so honest with me, but Im reverting back to old habits and we've allready had a few fallouts over me being paranoid. I guess Im still ignoring very good advice, but its easier said than done!
xxWhat is the best advice you have ever ignored?
you are far to young to get married
i was 18 in the army ignored everyone got married divorced two years later tow kids huge debts took years to put it right
Don't **** on your boss.
work hard :(
Dont paint everyone guy with the same brush.... to elaborate, after being in a string of disasterous relationships which reduced my trust in guys to zero, when I would meet a decent guy Id tar them with the same brush.... my lack of trust broke up a lot of relationships with really good guys that just couldnt take my paranoia, even today Ive met a great guy that has been so honest with me, but Im reverting back to old habits and we've allready had a few fallouts over me being paranoid. I guess Im still ignoring very good advice, but its easier said than done!
xxWhat is the best advice you have ever ignored?
you are far to young to get married
i was 18 in the army ignored everyone got married divorced two years later tow kids huge debts took years to put it right
Don't **** on your boss.
work hard :(
I need mums advice... would you be mad if your 20 year old daughter was pregnant about 2 start uni?
Im pregnant just found out... Im about to start uni i am sooo excited mum is more and dad there telling everyone... now am 4 weeks pregnant with boyfriend of 8 months we live together he's happy am sooo worried what mum will think that ive thrown my life away so young and dad will hit the roof i need help from a mums perspective :)I need mums advice... would you be mad if your 20 year old daughter was pregnant about 2 start uni?
whoa
you're pregnant
that's all
Your Life.....has not ( even nearly) been thrown away.
It's just enlarging,
in ways you hadn't factored in yet.
Shed loads of folk do university with a baby
It's More-than possible....truely and really.
Try it,
you will meet up with other mums there
and you CAN do it.
Especailly if your fella is behind you and thrilled too
Whether you Want to.........is another matter altogether.
And that's the question you will be talking about over the next few months.
I wish you well.
Oh and as a mum of a twenty year old girl- I'd be thrilled.I need mums advice... would you be mad if your 20 year old daughter was pregnant about 2 start uni?
Before you tell them, you need to do some research and have a talk with your boyfriend. You need to find out your due date, and plan to take that quarter off of school.Plan to return the next quarter, and look into daycare options in your area that will work with your school schedule, as well as the current rates and payment options. Do not quit school before the baby comes, or after. It will be difficult, but it will be worth getting your education to better support your child. Once you have a detailed plan for child care, your schooling, and the financial aspects by either getting a part time job or having him get a job or second job etc (babies are more expensive than you ever expect) then bring the joyous news to your parents (and his). By showing them that you are continuing with your education, while still being able to support the baby and have a detailed plan to make sure you do so, they will be more accepting and less likely to be mad, knowing their daughter has a good head on her shoulders and actually has a plan to be both a student and a mother. Make sure to let them know that you are confident you can do this, because they did a wonderful job raising you. Even though they may see it as irresponsible, make sure they know that you know it was irresponsible to have unprotected sex before graduating, but that you don't consider it a mistake, and plan to continue making your life better for yourself and now your child.
Good luck and congrats!
It's a tough situation and it will be tough to get through, but it is important to remember that they will love you regardless.
Are you ready to have a baby? My sister became pregnant when she was in her 2nd year of University and still finished and now has her Bachelor of Nursing and has a great job at the hospital. It was never easy, very tough...she didn't get a maternity leave, obviously, and she had to put him in daycare at only 2 months old to get back to school and work. It certainly paid off staying in school though!
what would you like to know b/c i got pregnant when i was 20 and 22 so i can help you out i have 6 kids and i had my first when i was 16 if you. i had my kids at ages 16 18 20 22 24 my parents were not happy to find out i was pregnant at 16 but they got over it and at 20 its your life and they can not tell you what to do and if your happy and he is happy then don't worry about your parents all that matters is your happy about the baby and you can finish school i did good luck and god bless
Well I was the same age when I got pregnant and my mother and father wasn't that mad. Of course they wanted to know what were my plans as far as school because of the baby. But I still went back to school, have a full-time job and live on my own. So I think that since they knew that I pretty much wasn't going to throw my life away, it wasn't that much of a bad thing.
As a mother- yes I would be upset. IF my daughter came to me, pregnant and then fully expected that we were going to now take care of both her and her kid!!
I did my work- I raised MY kids. It's not MY responsibility to raise my grandkids.
I'd be mad- I taught my kids right and to be responsible. I don't want their kids to be my work- they were the ones who thought ';they were ready'; for having sex- well- guess what- sex= babies.
YOUR job now. Hope your boyfriend actually loves you, and you are not just his booty call. You will find out now.
i wouldnt be mad. im 21 and was about to start school until i got pregnant. but it happens. your of age and old enough for the responsibility. if you were under 18 i can see them being mad but your 20.
Perhaps they would be disappointed.But life doesn't stop just because your pregnant.Continue to go to school.Tons of ppl do it.You just will have to alter some things.
I would have to wonder why in the hell I was putting her through the university.
i would be livid.
whoa
you're pregnant
that's all
Your Life.....has not ( even nearly) been thrown away.
It's just enlarging,
in ways you hadn't factored in yet.
Shed loads of folk do university with a baby
It's More-than possible....truely and really.
Try it,
you will meet up with other mums there
and you CAN do it.
Especailly if your fella is behind you and thrilled too
Whether you Want to.........is another matter altogether.
And that's the question you will be talking about over the next few months.
I wish you well.
Oh and as a mum of a twenty year old girl- I'd be thrilled.I need mums advice... would you be mad if your 20 year old daughter was pregnant about 2 start uni?
Before you tell them, you need to do some research and have a talk with your boyfriend. You need to find out your due date, and plan to take that quarter off of school.Plan to return the next quarter, and look into daycare options in your area that will work with your school schedule, as well as the current rates and payment options. Do not quit school before the baby comes, or after. It will be difficult, but it will be worth getting your education to better support your child. Once you have a detailed plan for child care, your schooling, and the financial aspects by either getting a part time job or having him get a job or second job etc (babies are more expensive than you ever expect) then bring the joyous news to your parents (and his). By showing them that you are continuing with your education, while still being able to support the baby and have a detailed plan to make sure you do so, they will be more accepting and less likely to be mad, knowing their daughter has a good head on her shoulders and actually has a plan to be both a student and a mother. Make sure to let them know that you are confident you can do this, because they did a wonderful job raising you. Even though they may see it as irresponsible, make sure they know that you know it was irresponsible to have unprotected sex before graduating, but that you don't consider it a mistake, and plan to continue making your life better for yourself and now your child.
Good luck and congrats!
It's a tough situation and it will be tough to get through, but it is important to remember that they will love you regardless.
Are you ready to have a baby? My sister became pregnant when she was in her 2nd year of University and still finished and now has her Bachelor of Nursing and has a great job at the hospital. It was never easy, very tough...she didn't get a maternity leave, obviously, and she had to put him in daycare at only 2 months old to get back to school and work. It certainly paid off staying in school though!
what would you like to know b/c i got pregnant when i was 20 and 22 so i can help you out i have 6 kids and i had my first when i was 16 if you. i had my kids at ages 16 18 20 22 24 my parents were not happy to find out i was pregnant at 16 but they got over it and at 20 its your life and they can not tell you what to do and if your happy and he is happy then don't worry about your parents all that matters is your happy about the baby and you can finish school i did good luck and god bless
Well I was the same age when I got pregnant and my mother and father wasn't that mad. Of course they wanted to know what were my plans as far as school because of the baby. But I still went back to school, have a full-time job and live on my own. So I think that since they knew that I pretty much wasn't going to throw my life away, it wasn't that much of a bad thing.
As a mother- yes I would be upset. IF my daughter came to me, pregnant and then fully expected that we were going to now take care of both her and her kid!!
I did my work- I raised MY kids. It's not MY responsibility to raise my grandkids.
I'd be mad- I taught my kids right and to be responsible. I don't want their kids to be my work- they were the ones who thought ';they were ready'; for having sex- well- guess what- sex= babies.
YOUR job now. Hope your boyfriend actually loves you, and you are not just his booty call. You will find out now.
i wouldnt be mad. im 21 and was about to start school until i got pregnant. but it happens. your of age and old enough for the responsibility. if you were under 18 i can see them being mad but your 20.
Perhaps they would be disappointed.But life doesn't stop just because your pregnant.Continue to go to school.Tons of ppl do it.You just will have to alter some things.
I would have to wonder why in the hell I was putting her through the university.
i would be livid.
Massage therapists: Do you like your career in massage? Any advice on massage school?
I have heard very different reviews. I know that there are seasonal ups and downs with the # of people coming and going from resort areas. Is it worth it? Can you make a living? Do the cons balance out the pros?Massage therapists: Do you like your career in massage? Any advice on massage school?
i'm not currently working as a massage therapist, but i'm in school and almost done. i have been doing clinic hours at our school with the public and i must say that the experiences i've had with massage so far are very rewarding. its definatley not a thankless job. your're helping people while relaxing them and the work is good exercise for your body as well. and there are always opportunities to learn more and expand your practice. many people start out working at spas, but you can always have your own practice part time on the side, with your own hours. with all the necessary practice massages you do during school, you're bound to pick up some clients with friends and family, who can refer you to more people.....and so on. its a very rewarding careerMassage therapists: Do you like your career in massage? Any advice on massage school?
Some people make a very good living this way.
I think it depends on several factors. One is personality and whether or not you can aggressively market yourself. That's not me.
I prefer to have my full time County job with retirement and benefits and do massage for $60 an hour on the side for extra cash.
Some people consider massage a luxury and in these times a lot of people simply don't have the money to spend on a regular basis.
However, if you are in an area of the county where alternative medicine is fully embraced and accepted, there will most likely be many people who seek out massage for its health benefits.
The McKinnon School of Massage and Body Work in Oakland California is an excellent school.
You need to be aware of what the requirements are for employment in your area after massage school. There are different hourly requirements, some require you to get a license (other than a business license). Things have changed since I was looking to make it my career.
I love giving a good massage and seeing the difference it makes in a person's life.
For a while I was doing 10 minute stress relief massages, but found that my hands were being strained by going full-force the entire time...whereas during a full-body massage you are able to rest your hands from time to time by using different strokes.
I'm glad you are asking your questions!
~hiddnstar~mascara
i'm not currently working as a massage therapist, but i'm in school and almost done. i have been doing clinic hours at our school with the public and i must say that the experiences i've had with massage so far are very rewarding. its definatley not a thankless job. your're helping people while relaxing them and the work is good exercise for your body as well. and there are always opportunities to learn more and expand your practice. many people start out working at spas, but you can always have your own practice part time on the side, with your own hours. with all the necessary practice massages you do during school, you're bound to pick up some clients with friends and family, who can refer you to more people.....and so on. its a very rewarding careerMassage therapists: Do you like your career in massage? Any advice on massage school?
Some people make a very good living this way.
I think it depends on several factors. One is personality and whether or not you can aggressively market yourself. That's not me.
I prefer to have my full time County job with retirement and benefits and do massage for $60 an hour on the side for extra cash.
Some people consider massage a luxury and in these times a lot of people simply don't have the money to spend on a regular basis.
However, if you are in an area of the county where alternative medicine is fully embraced and accepted, there will most likely be many people who seek out massage for its health benefits.
The McKinnon School of Massage and Body Work in Oakland California is an excellent school.
You need to be aware of what the requirements are for employment in your area after massage school. There are different hourly requirements, some require you to get a license (other than a business license). Things have changed since I was looking to make it my career.
I love giving a good massage and seeing the difference it makes in a person's life.
For a while I was doing 10 minute stress relief massages, but found that my hands were being strained by going full-force the entire time...whereas during a full-body massage you are able to rest your hands from time to time by using different strokes.
I'm glad you are asking your questions!
~hiddnstar~
Can you give a first time frog owner advice please?
okay so theres a frog outside that me and my sister want to catch. can e keep it in an empty fish tank, but what would we need in the fish tank? what kind of food would we feed it? How long do they live? Can you get diseases? We think its a wood frogCan you give a first time frog owner advice please?
here read this its about snakes and lizards i know but its just as applicable to frogs http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Can you give a first time frog owner advice please?
You must have at least a five gallon tank or the frog will die and none of my advice will work. You need dirt half wet half dry. You need a water bowl that covers at least 50% of the cage. You need something for the frog to hide under. You need to change the water every other day and make sure that it is treated using a special treatment liquid. You should feed it crickets every other day. The crickets should be fed carrots and lettuce every other day. The crickets either need a wet sponge Dont use a dish sponge. Use a small sponge from a pet store. If you don't like this I recommend Flukers Cricket Quencher. YOu can get salmonella if you don't keep the tank clean and if you don't change the water. They live about 2-7 years with proper care but that is from birth if it is already 2 years old then it might only live another 1-3 years. Good Luck I hoep you have fun :)
Well, you can keep your frog. Keeping the frog is a matter of personal choice and is quite opinionated. Now, one thing you'll have to do is determine whether or not the frog is aquatic. More than likely, it is not and will do okay with a water dish with enough water to not cover it completely. The downfall to keeping a bowl is that you have to clean it more often. The other choice is to get a running water system with a filter (would run you between 10 and 30 bucks). Heating for you frog doesn't have to be special. He lives in the area, make it feel like the area around you. If you have a fish tank, you should have a light, so that part is covered. As for size of the tank, it will depend on the size of the frog. If he can comfortably move around in the tank, then it's big enough. The next step is to decorate. Don't over decorate because it makes it harder to clean. Get a nice piece of wood and some foliage (I recommend fake because it's always green). I'm also going to recommend a mister and usually 3 times a day will provide enough moisture, but this also depends on your house temp. Next is food. Yes, frogs eat worms, but they also eat crickets and other insects that will fit in their mouths.
Remember, have fun and do some research online. It can become an addicting hobby and can teach you many things.
i can almost guarantee that it will die if you keep it
its a wild animal, not a pet, your fish tank is probably waaay too small. dont keep it. you can catch it and look at it all you want but don't keep it! there are lots of frogs available from petstores that are very cheap and easy to maintain. i cannot emphasize this enough, DO NOT keep it, you will greatly stress it out and drastically shorten its life span, please, for the sake of the frog, dont keep it. it might seem cool right now, but youll probably get bored of it soon, if you really want a frog, go buy one. you could let it loose in your backyard to watch it too
Yes put it in a fish tank with water and rocks so he wont drown they live up to 25 days if you keep it in there no you cant get diesesas from frogs only if its poisinous wood frogs are not poisinous
Kelsey, you know you have to feed frogs WORMS. Do you like slimy, wiggly WORMS???
here read this its about snakes and lizards i know but its just as applicable to frogs http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;鈥?/a>Can you give a first time frog owner advice please?
You must have at least a five gallon tank or the frog will die and none of my advice will work. You need dirt half wet half dry. You need a water bowl that covers at least 50% of the cage. You need something for the frog to hide under. You need to change the water every other day and make sure that it is treated using a special treatment liquid. You should feed it crickets every other day. The crickets should be fed carrots and lettuce every other day. The crickets either need a wet sponge Dont use a dish sponge. Use a small sponge from a pet store. If you don't like this I recommend Flukers Cricket Quencher. YOu can get salmonella if you don't keep the tank clean and if you don't change the water. They live about 2-7 years with proper care but that is from birth if it is already 2 years old then it might only live another 1-3 years. Good Luck I hoep you have fun :)
Well, you can keep your frog. Keeping the frog is a matter of personal choice and is quite opinionated. Now, one thing you'll have to do is determine whether or not the frog is aquatic. More than likely, it is not and will do okay with a water dish with enough water to not cover it completely. The downfall to keeping a bowl is that you have to clean it more often. The other choice is to get a running water system with a filter (would run you between 10 and 30 bucks). Heating for you frog doesn't have to be special. He lives in the area, make it feel like the area around you. If you have a fish tank, you should have a light, so that part is covered. As for size of the tank, it will depend on the size of the frog. If he can comfortably move around in the tank, then it's big enough. The next step is to decorate. Don't over decorate because it makes it harder to clean. Get a nice piece of wood and some foliage (I recommend fake because it's always green). I'm also going to recommend a mister and usually 3 times a day will provide enough moisture, but this also depends on your house temp. Next is food. Yes, frogs eat worms, but they also eat crickets and other insects that will fit in their mouths.
Remember, have fun and do some research online. It can become an addicting hobby and can teach you many things.
i can almost guarantee that it will die if you keep it
its a wild animal, not a pet, your fish tank is probably waaay too small. dont keep it. you can catch it and look at it all you want but don't keep it! there are lots of frogs available from petstores that are very cheap and easy to maintain. i cannot emphasize this enough, DO NOT keep it, you will greatly stress it out and drastically shorten its life span, please, for the sake of the frog, dont keep it. it might seem cool right now, but youll probably get bored of it soon, if you really want a frog, go buy one. you could let it loose in your backyard to watch it too
Yes put it in a fish tank with water and rocks so he wont drown they live up to 25 days if you keep it in there no you cant get diesesas from frogs only if its poisinous wood frogs are not poisinous
Kelsey, you know you have to feed frogs WORMS. Do you like slimy, wiggly WORMS???
Can you give a singel dad some advice?
My son is six years old and he stays with his mom and me part time.Me and His Mom have been divorced six years since then she has been married 2 times and know has a live in boy friend now for about six weeks.My son is starting to call him dad and the man plays a strong disciplianry roll already.Do think this is ok?I am not crazy about it.I know he loves me and he knows that I am his father.I have talked to his mother about it and she doesnt think that it is a bad thing.Is it wrong to correct my son when he calls him dad or should I let it go and hope for the best. Help a confused DAD.Can you give a singel dad some advice?
I'm very sorry. I know it hurts, but please understand. He is only 6. You never said anything bad about the other man, so I don't think hes a rotten guy. It sounds like your son is attached to him and cares about him. Its good that when you cant be there...that there is someone with him that cares for him like a son.
Way to many step children are treated poorly.Some step fathers just dont care at all if children misbehave. The men feel like its not their problem if the kids grow up doing bad in school, or getting into trouble, and you can't be in both places at once. As long as this man is being fair and not beating him or anything...he sounds like he has your sons best intrest in mind. Isnt that what any birth parent hopes for?
As far as calling him Dad, I just called a birth dad and asked what he did. He said that when your young son is talking to you, and calls this man Dad...look at him very confused like your trying to figure out who he is talking about.then say ';oh, you mean Bob';(replace with the mans name) Not in a mean way, but to remind him of the names to use and with whom to use them with. He said that sometimes there are slips, but please don't let it get to you. Over time, your son will see when he slips on his own and correct himself.
Maybe someday, you will meet a wonderful woman, marry, and your son will love her. He just might honor with the most wonderful gift a child can give her....calling her Mom.Can you give a singel dad some advice?
Does he MAKE your son call him dad? Kids are very loyal creatures. If your son is being forced to do things against his will, then take him to a child psychologist who can help or at least document it. My ex forces my daughter to call him dad or she cant eat. Luckily he only sees her once a year .... but she will grow up hating him. She already does unfortunately. Sometimes kids will do that willingly to test YOUR love for them. Try talking to your son about your feelings on it.
I completely agree with mom of 3. Talk to them and your son, keep in touch all the time, and make sure he calls you “dad”. Your son is just trying to have a normal life. That is why he is doing this, is perfectly normal. But don’t let it get extended any more.
Hello, I am separated about five years ago and i know its tought. But I belive you should stand up for what you feel is right. This other man is not the father of your boy, and you need to tell your boy that! Maybe he dosn´t no and he try to say dad to this man and se if its right. My children never called my new husband dad, and they dont need to do that as loong as they have a dad who they see regularely. I as a child also had a new father, but never sew my biological father and i belive every child need somebody to call dad. So that seamed right for a 5 year old to call the man in the house dad. But in your case, try to have your boy 50 % and talk to the mother and her boyfriend about what you feel. You can also talk to your boy and inform him that you are the father and nobody else and the boyfriend is only ';Jim'; or what ever his name is. Children take all information naturally and live after it. The most important thing is to actually inform and talk about everything and not have secrets. Secrets most of the time make life complicated,
and children make up an own story about whats going on.
That will make the child take to much guilt and responsability. Best wiches Mom of three.
I'm very sorry. I know it hurts, but please understand. He is only 6. You never said anything bad about the other man, so I don't think hes a rotten guy. It sounds like your son is attached to him and cares about him. Its good that when you cant be there...that there is someone with him that cares for him like a son.
Way to many step children are treated poorly.Some step fathers just dont care at all if children misbehave. The men feel like its not their problem if the kids grow up doing bad in school, or getting into trouble, and you can't be in both places at once. As long as this man is being fair and not beating him or anything...he sounds like he has your sons best intrest in mind. Isnt that what any birth parent hopes for?
As far as calling him Dad, I just called a birth dad and asked what he did. He said that when your young son is talking to you, and calls this man Dad...look at him very confused like your trying to figure out who he is talking about.then say ';oh, you mean Bob';(replace with the mans name) Not in a mean way, but to remind him of the names to use and with whom to use them with. He said that sometimes there are slips, but please don't let it get to you. Over time, your son will see when he slips on his own and correct himself.
Maybe someday, you will meet a wonderful woman, marry, and your son will love her. He just might honor with the most wonderful gift a child can give her....calling her Mom.Can you give a singel dad some advice?
Does he MAKE your son call him dad? Kids are very loyal creatures. If your son is being forced to do things against his will, then take him to a child psychologist who can help or at least document it. My ex forces my daughter to call him dad or she cant eat. Luckily he only sees her once a year .... but she will grow up hating him. She already does unfortunately. Sometimes kids will do that willingly to test YOUR love for them. Try talking to your son about your feelings on it.
I completely agree with mom of 3. Talk to them and your son, keep in touch all the time, and make sure he calls you “dad”. Your son is just trying to have a normal life. That is why he is doing this, is perfectly normal. But don’t let it get extended any more.
Hello, I am separated about five years ago and i know its tought. But I belive you should stand up for what you feel is right. This other man is not the father of your boy, and you need to tell your boy that! Maybe he dosn´t no and he try to say dad to this man and se if its right. My children never called my new husband dad, and they dont need to do that as loong as they have a dad who they see regularely. I as a child also had a new father, but never sew my biological father and i belive every child need somebody to call dad. So that seamed right for a 5 year old to call the man in the house dad. But in your case, try to have your boy 50 % and talk to the mother and her boyfriend about what you feel. You can also talk to your boy and inform him that you are the father and nobody else and the boyfriend is only ';Jim'; or what ever his name is. Children take all information naturally and live after it. The most important thing is to actually inform and talk about everything and not have secrets. Secrets most of the time make life complicated,
and children make up an own story about whats going on.
That will make the child take to much guilt and responsability. Best wiches Mom of three.
Saturday, July 31, 2010
What advice would you give to someone thinking about suicide? What is the number one cause of teen depression?
Every living being has a unique purpose for which he/she/it was made. You will be able to understand it only if you live your life to the full..
So, stop worrying and if at you haven't started yet... start now.. Start living.
Please Don't exist.
Not being able to get into a relationship with the one they desire.... thats the most common reason
http://www.futureaccountant.com/What advice would you give to someone thinking about suicide? What is the number one cause of teen depression?
Dont do it if you are a religious person get closer to God and ask for some help, you might also want to go see a phycoligist. Also tell your parent or parents your situation. By the way I can relate I am also a teen. I believe the top teen depresion cause would be a death from a close friend or boyfriend or a major breakup.What advice would you give to someone thinking about suicide? What is the number one cause of teen depression?
GET HELP NOW.
Depression can be caused by a chemical imbalance or it can be caused by overwhelming negative thoughts triggered by bad situations. Either way, it is imperative to get help from mental health professionals now.
Suicide is not a way out of our problems, it is a cop out, a cowards way out. Since the depression is caused by our minds, our brain can make an excellent case for suicide, but that is the one time not to listen to yourself. With professional help, you can be up and running in no time, back to a much more normal life.
I would suggest just to keep talking to them and tell them all the things- it'll pass, they have a lot to live for, etc etc, even if they don't seem to hear you or turn down everything you say you get them through the rough patch for when they start to feel better.
Example:
';Things'll look brighter in the morning!';
';No, no they won't I wake up every morning miserable';
Dooon't get discouraged! They're saying this but just keep talking to them about it and telling them that stuff...
In our life we all make a great number of mistakes. After we did something wrong, we have the possibility to learn from it and correct it. Nothing in life is so dramatic that it forces you to make a mistake which can not be corrected. Yest think, is there any problem worst than being death, I don't think so.
A teenager is really frail and only a bad mark is enough to make them thinking about suicide! Talk him and explain him how life is amazing!
Prozac.
turn to someone for help. School councellor, principal, nurse, doctor, parents, etc.
Any type of attention you can give to a depressed teen is a good thing. If you try to bring up the topic with them, it provides an opening to talk.
I believe the biggest cause of teen depression is issues with family. I think it is also hereditary.
THEY HAVE SO MUCH TO LIVE FOR...THEY ARE LEAVING BEHIND THE PEOPLE WHO LOVE THEM...SIT DOWN AND JUST HAVE A HEART TO HEART..WHATEVER THE PROBLEM MAY BE IT CAN BE SOLVED..I DON'T KNOW THE NUMBER ONE CAUSE OF TEEN DEPRESSION-PEER PRESSURE MAYBE...FEEL LIKE THEY DON'T FIT IN MAYBE???
I would tell them to talk to ANYONE they feel comfortable confiding in. A teacher, counselor, priest, minister, parent, sibling, school mate, etc. Remember that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. There are suicide hot lines, web sites and several other ways to cope with your problems. 1-800-suicide (1-800-784-2433) www.SuicideHotlines.com. You can e-mail me, I'm no professional, but I have teenagers, maybe I can help. Someone out there cares for you more than you know, so don't do it! I don't know the number one cause, I would boyfriend/girlfriend, or parent trouble.
just think about what your doing is it worth your life and if i was you i would go try and get some help from someone. I think you need to talk to someone. dont do it nothing is worth your life and if you need someone to talk to e mail me. i can help i have thought about that stuff a lot.
So, stop worrying and if at you haven't started yet... start now.. Start living.
Please Don't exist.
Not being able to get into a relationship with the one they desire.... thats the most common reason
http://www.futureaccountant.com/What advice would you give to someone thinking about suicide? What is the number one cause of teen depression?
Dont do it if you are a religious person get closer to God and ask for some help, you might also want to go see a phycoligist. Also tell your parent or parents your situation. By the way I can relate I am also a teen. I believe the top teen depresion cause would be a death from a close friend or boyfriend or a major breakup.What advice would you give to someone thinking about suicide? What is the number one cause of teen depression?
GET HELP NOW.
Depression can be caused by a chemical imbalance or it can be caused by overwhelming negative thoughts triggered by bad situations. Either way, it is imperative to get help from mental health professionals now.
Suicide is not a way out of our problems, it is a cop out, a cowards way out. Since the depression is caused by our minds, our brain can make an excellent case for suicide, but that is the one time not to listen to yourself. With professional help, you can be up and running in no time, back to a much more normal life.
I would suggest just to keep talking to them and tell them all the things- it'll pass, they have a lot to live for, etc etc, even if they don't seem to hear you or turn down everything you say you get them through the rough patch for when they start to feel better.
Example:
';Things'll look brighter in the morning!';
';No, no they won't I wake up every morning miserable';
Dooon't get discouraged! They're saying this but just keep talking to them about it and telling them that stuff...
In our life we all make a great number of mistakes. After we did something wrong, we have the possibility to learn from it and correct it. Nothing in life is so dramatic that it forces you to make a mistake which can not be corrected. Yest think, is there any problem worst than being death, I don't think so.
A teenager is really frail and only a bad mark is enough to make them thinking about suicide! Talk him and explain him how life is amazing!
Prozac.
turn to someone for help. School councellor, principal, nurse, doctor, parents, etc.
Any type of attention you can give to a depressed teen is a good thing. If you try to bring up the topic with them, it provides an opening to talk.
I believe the biggest cause of teen depression is issues with family. I think it is also hereditary.
THEY HAVE SO MUCH TO LIVE FOR...THEY ARE LEAVING BEHIND THE PEOPLE WHO LOVE THEM...SIT DOWN AND JUST HAVE A HEART TO HEART..WHATEVER THE PROBLEM MAY BE IT CAN BE SOLVED..I DON'T KNOW THE NUMBER ONE CAUSE OF TEEN DEPRESSION-PEER PRESSURE MAYBE...FEEL LIKE THEY DON'T FIT IN MAYBE???
I would tell them to talk to ANYONE they feel comfortable confiding in. A teacher, counselor, priest, minister, parent, sibling, school mate, etc. Remember that suicide is a permanent solution to a temporary problem. There are suicide hot lines, web sites and several other ways to cope with your problems. 1-800-suicide (1-800-784-2433) www.SuicideHotlines.com. You can e-mail me, I'm no professional, but I have teenagers, maybe I can help. Someone out there cares for you more than you know, so don't do it! I don't know the number one cause, I would boyfriend/girlfriend, or parent trouble.
just think about what your doing is it worth your life and if i was you i would go try and get some help from someone. I think you need to talk to someone. dont do it nothing is worth your life and if you need someone to talk to e mail me. i can help i have thought about that stuff a lot.
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