Tuesday, November 22, 2011

Native American spiritualists: could you explain this and maybe give some advice please?

A friends niece recently finished her training as a medicine woman (Cherokee). For some reason (I don't know the belief system) she asked him to go on a vision quest. He agreed to do so immediately. First, why would she ask him to do that? Second, how can he do that, since he is an atheist? Third, is there a way to talk them out of it, since pointing out health issues didn't work (heart disease)?Native American spiritualists: could you explain this and maybe give some advice please?
From what I understand a vision quest is a way to get in touch with your animal totems and to become closer to the earth from which life sprang.


Having visions and/or having psychic abilities has nothing to do with the fact that someone is an atheist or some religion.


They are his health issues and his responsibility to do or not do anything that may or may not harm him.Native American spiritualists: could you explain this and maybe give some advice please?
whatever your friends niece is, she is not a medicine woman of any sort. it is not a course one takes and then finishes. she probably paid some fraud a lot of money to learn ';authentic native teachings'; but if she wants to know how authentic her ';medicine woman'; title is, tell her to go to the cherokee rez and see how accepted she is as a healer. they will run her off. she has been scammed.





and you have every reason to be afraid for your friend's health on this so called ';vision quest'; as every year several people die because they are trying to do things they have no clue about and are unprepared for, including vision quests and sweats. that girl is playing with fire, so to speak and someone is going to get hurt.
First of all there is NO training to become a medicine ';person';... A person either is or isn't...PERIOD!!!
What does atheism have to do with vision quests?


Does theism have a monopoly on spirituality?


NO.
I guess the Predators have to bring back the Alien Queens head if they want to be part of the clan.
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  • If you were to give someone you loved one piece of advice for life, what would it be?

    My Dad used to tell me that children don't come with a handbook - we all make mistakes but it's how we correct them that matters.If you were to give someone you loved one piece of advice for life, what would it be?
    The only place where success comes before work is in the dictionaryIf you were to give someone you loved one piece of advice for life, what would it be?
    take risks and live for the moment. people who risk nothing, become nothing, although they avoid pain, embarrassment and heartache, they learn nothing. they become enslaved by lack of life. follow your heart, because the worst thing you can do is regret not doing it.
    i'd tell them to always sing this...


    i said a hip, hop, hip, a hippy to the hip hip hopping you don't stop a rocking to the bang bang shippy you don't stop a rocking to the moving of the moving of feet
    ';Don't judge EVERY day, by this day!'; Whether you're on top of the world, or at the very bottom, don't think your entire life is going to stay this way!!
    make sure they know where they're going in life and that they have everything they can't live without
    Life is about taking risks and having regrets - but if you never try - you'll never know.


    xx
    seize opportunity of good moments because past is in the past and no regrets..always look forward
    Measure twice, cut once.
    always be true to yourself
    Never go to sleep mad
    don't advise ....might get u in trouble

    How do you tell your mom if you are pregnant? any advice no harsh answers.?

    I think i'm with child And i don't no how to tell her.....ADVICE NEEDED!!!!!!!!How do you tell your mom if you are pregnant? any advice no harsh answers.?
    Tell her you are a $lut and got a big load dumped in you and the rest is history.


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    www.isuckdick.netHow do you tell your mom if you are pregnant? any advice no harsh answers.?
    First of all you need to find out for sure that you are pregnant before telling her, and if you are then you tell her, and if you are NOT pregnant then you should still talk to her about sex and some form of birth control since you are sexually active. Good Luck honey,
    With the first pregnancy I wrapped the pregnancy test in a box and gave it to her. With the second I sent my son in wearing a t-**** that said he was the big brother..she got it!..You have to tell her one way or another your already pregnant and nothing she says or you say will change that fact. but i would definitely make sure you are before you throw a curve ball at her like that.
    You are pregnant and telling her will not change that fact so just sit her down and tell her.

    What would be some advice that you would give to a couple planning a family?

    THIS QUESTION IS ONLY TO THE PEOPLE THAT ARE MARRIED.





    %26amp; at what age did you start your family %26amp; were you married before your started your family?What would be some advice that you would give to a couple planning a family?
    Marry first. Do not marry young. A guy generally starts maturing after age 23 or 24. A girl should not burden herself with having a baby until she is at least 21.


    make sure that things are working out for a year or two


    Save your money and make sure you are financially ready to have a child.


    Make sure that you are emotionally ready and mature enough to deal this the numerous problems and expenses a child will introduce into your life.


    Be sure that you are willing to give up the partying, frequent nights out, and spontaneous vactions.


    Make sure that you can afford child care if you plan to work.What would be some advice that you would give to a couple planning a family?
    Get your college education first, get a real good paying job, start buying your house, THEN have kids. Try to have at least $10,000 in the bank before you have kids......they r expensive and it will take alot of money to raise them. Just to get started on a family with furniture , clothes, car seats, and diapers is about $3,000, for your first one. Once you do start a family you shouldn't space the children out any more than 3 years apart (if you are planning).........lol... life doesn't always go according to plan.

    What is the best piece of advice someone has ever given you?

    One of my ex boyfriends told me that time is the best healer. And guess what??





    HE WAS SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO RIGHT





    and also.. ';everyone deserves a second chance';


    and the most important [hahah I know you hear it all the time]





    JUST BE YOURSELF BABY





    xD hope I helpedWhat is the best piece of advice someone has ever given you?
    best piece of advice I ever got was to learn to be happy with myself before I try to be happy with someone. I am the only person I can change.What is the best piece of advice someone has ever given you?
    No advice is the best advice b/c


    who ever listens to advice ?
    someone once told me a lier is a theif and a theif is a lier. I didnt want to consitered a theif so i never lie.
    The best piece of advice I have ever gotten is to take things as they come, not to worry about what you can't control and don't have any regrets because at some point thats what you wanted. Use your head but follow your heart and don't take life for granted.
    ';girls need to know that they can be sexy without showing skin. It's all about how you work it and how you carry yourself.';


    jessica alba

    Any models can you give me advice?

    My neice is thinking about getting into the buisness. I don't feel very confortable with posting a picture here, but i'll give you a detailed description.


    Shes 5'8%26amp; still growing shes only 15.


    Naturaly blonde hair.


    Green %26amp; blue mixed eyes, they look almost grey.


    Slim build i'd say she has an hourglass shape.


    Light skin.


    Half russian %26amp; half polish origions.


    Birthplace pisz.


    To get a clearer idea Joanna Krupa has a similar shaped face.Any models can you give me advice?
    theres alot more to it than just looks! she needs to be photogenic, she has to know how to walk, she needs to be really prepared for rejection, and most important she needs to get with the right agency! lots of agencies are looking for models who are dangerously under weight, its not good for your self-esteem and there are lots of people in the modeling world who deal with drugs. its really not as glamorous as you think. just make sure she knows all the facts and doesnt fall for an internet porn scam.Any models can you give me advice?
    how is she tit-wise?

    If a questioning youth seeks your advice, what is the first thing you will say to him/her?

    One sentence only please.If a questioning youth seeks your advice, what is the first thing you will say to him/her?
    ';Whatever you are going through you can tell me and I will try my best to help you with it.';If a questioning youth seeks your advice, what is the first thing you will say to him/her?
    It depends on what i am doing....





    If i am talkin a shower, then i will tell him/her to tell me later, but if i am in a time when i am well, then i will tell this youth seeking advicer





    ';i'm listening'; :)
    I answer questions across a couple different topics on here, so it would really have to be relevant to that ';area of discussion'; (i.e. computers. science, religion, GLBT, entertainment... etc.).
    No use to label yourself , be yourself %26amp; remember being different can be a good thing.
    ';Don't worry about it, in a month from now you won't even remember it.';
    Depends on what advice they are seeking...
    Nobody has all the answers.
    I tell him how terrific he is.
    Good luck.
    Google it.
    Advice on what? Kind of a broad question don't ya think?
    I'd ask:





    ';So, what's your question?';
    depends on the question duh lol
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  • Please any girls with good fashion advice and such? What do you do to stay thin???

    i only want hot popular girls to tell me good advice on how to be HOT please i am desperatePlease any girls with good fashion advice and such? What do you do to stay thin???
    ok so to stay thin you just eat right(not 10 meals a day) and work out. as for fashion i'd say you go shopping with hot popular girls. try going to abercrombie, american eagle, aeroppostale, victoria secret, and stores like that. when you wear the clothes just go for the whole look of ';i just remembered i was supposed to come to this party and i left at the last minute'; dont look like you were waiting all day forr your date or party or w/e.Please any girls with good fashion advice and such? What do you do to stay thin???
    to be well, 'hot', I just be myself and feel that I'm beautiful in every way. If people dont like you than that is their problem. If you want to be 'hot' enough for them just try a different hair style or put on just a little eye shadow and lip gloss. To stay thin, just workout a little a day, it really pays off. Try signing up for a sport in the next semester. You should go shoping for a new look. Good Luck
    Look, I thought ppl didnit think I was hot, but apparently I am wrong. Two guy said I was hott today. but thats not the point.... I figure, hey, if ppl dont like you the way you are, then you shouldnt care, I mean, you have your friends.


    just start eating healthy, like fruits and veggies, cut back on the sweetes, and exercise


    I hope this helps :)
    going on diets is not always the best because it may cause a eating disorder. just watch what you eat and you will get skinny. it worked for me. about the fashion thing, have your own style and people will start to admire you for being your own person.
    ok. im telling u this because i feel sorry for you. Dieting, i have found, does not work. It makes you have eating disorders. You are stupid to even post things like that. You probably look great just the way you are. ps. i am saying this because I care
    i'm sorry that you dont have a lot of confidence but ill try and help you. to wear the in clothes and have good fashion and everything shop at stores like aeropostale, american eagle, abercrombie, hollister, and victorias secret. and to stay fit just work out a couple days a week and eat good foods and not too much. hope i helped!
    well...i tink you don't have da weight issue as much as da fashion issue. alot of times even if you are over weight you can look great when dressed properly...so i wud say instead of going on some crazy diet...go shopping with someone who has a sense of style and can advice you on wat looks good on ur figure and how to wear nice and elegant make up....trust me if you change ur way of dressing and eat properly you wud be alot happier and feel better about urself dan trying to look as thin as Nicole Kidman!!!! Good Luck :)
    do something that makes you happy (and that includes working out) - dancing, singing loudly, walking around. that will increase your serotonin lever and you won't be hungry. then, try to eat regularly (and stick to healthy foods such as carrots, apples,...). and in the end, share your fears, sadness with someone close to you.
    Zone diet and strength training gave me a gorgeous body.


    Dress cute and feminine, in pastel colors that are form-fitting but not tight, subtly accentuating your figure. My favorite fashion purchase recently is a black and pink track suit from Bebe Sport; it is hot!


    But keep in mind, the best way to be hot is to have a relaxed, comfortable, fun-loving personality.

    EBAY?: DO you have and advice on shipping and packaging shoes on EBAY?

    They are never worn Nikes, still in the box.


    Thanks for any helpEBAY?: DO you have and advice on shipping and packaging shoes on EBAY?
    Leave the shoes in the original box with the original packaging. Then place that box inside another box with either some microfoam, bubblewrap, or air pillows. Don't use packing peanuts. The will create a mess and are harder to throw away. Don't just send the shoes in just the original box with no outer box. The UPS or FedEx environment can be harsh. Make sure each show is wrapped in that light paper they wrap them in. That will help the shoes from scratching each other by rubbing each other.EBAY?: DO you have and advice on shipping and packaging shoes on EBAY?
    Yes--the 1st responder gave a good answer, but I'll add to it in case you want to sell ---and ship MORE items!





    Did you know that the USPS has FREE boxes for you to use INCLUDING shoe boxes! (See link) Now the down side is that these items will be sent via priority rate mail which could be expensive for your buyers UNLESS something heavy fits into the flat rate box.





    You can see ALL the boxes available by just clicking on the link. eBay and the U.S. Postal Service are happy to offer you FREE co-branded shipping boxes for Priority Mail庐 and Priority Mail Flat Rate Service. These boxes will be delivered directly to your home at no cost to you.





    Good luck!

    Can you please give any advice for my fantasy baseball team?

    I am in a 6 team league in a head to head competition. I started off REALLY bad (50 games below .500)I finally figured out how to manage my team (having all closers as relievers and put them all in until you need to take them out for the day for your starters to pitch, and put your bench players in your lineup when some of your players have a travel day. Now I am 30 games below .500. Here is my team:





    C: Paul Lo Duca


    1B: Prince Fielder


    2B: Howie Kendrick


    SS: Jose Reyes


    3B: David Wright


    OF: Torii Hunter


    OF: Ken Griffey Jr.


    OF: Eric Byrnes


    Util: Justin Morneau


    B: Placido Polanco


    B: Alex Rios


    B: Bill Hall


    B: Corey Hart


    B: Edgar Renteria





    Pitchers:


    SP: Kenny Rogers


    SP: Joe Blanton


    SP: Jeremy Bonderman


    SP: Fausto Carmona


    SP: Tim Hudson


    SP: Justin Verlander


    SP: Rich Harden


    RP: Jose Valverde


    RP: Takashi Saito


    RP: Bobby Jenks


    RP: Todd Jones


    RP: Joe Borowski





    My offense seems fine but my pitching is weak (I think). What do you think of my team? Any advice?





    ThanksCan you please give any advice for my fantasy baseball team?
    you need to trade some of your bench position players for good starting pitching. Since you rarely play those position players you don't need them anyway. All you need is up to two postion bench players at most. You would much rather have a ton of pitching since they don't play but every five games compared to to a position player that plays everyday.Can you please give any advice for my fantasy baseball team?
    keep it that way, its a championship caliber team. look to get the gold. thats all i can say. well, hope this helps.
    Well if you are only in a 6 team league, then everyone has an awesome team. There are more than enough really good players in the league to fill up only 6 teams.





    For starters, I would play Renteria instead of Reyes, that's just me.





    Now that you know how to play your pitchers I think you will see a vast improvement in your score. Getting Rogers back from the DL is going to be a big plus. See who's left in free agency. With only 6 teams there are bound to be some good players left out there you can pick up. Carmona has had a good year so far but he got seriously rocked this week. I'd pay attention to how he does in his next outing. If he tanks you might want to consider dropping him and grabbing a replacement free agent.
    your team is just fine..... keep it the way it is, and things will work out

    To all psychariatrist. wat best advice ca you give to an ofw maltrate by the employer.?

    his employer didn't give hr salary for 7months and after 1yr 1/2 she force to go back to the philippines.by the way she work in singapore.To all psychariatrist. wat best advice ca you give to an ofw maltrate by the employer.?
    isn't there a legal issue involved here. can she not deal with this through the police. if not, karma will catch up with him. he is a rat!!~!

    Do Eastern society have good standard and values? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?

    The Confucian, Taoist, Buddhist, and Hindu traditions all emphasize what is called in Japanese ';shugyo';--';self-cultivation.';





    This is similar to Abraham Maslow's ';self-actualization,'; with the capstone being various spiritual insight teachings--essentially Maslow's final formulation, ';Theory Z.';





    Thus, there is traditional Western materialism--what Kierkegaard termed the ';Aesthetic sphere,'; equivalent to Maslow's need-hierarchy and Sartre's existentialism. This leads to egoism, which the aforementioned traditions deplore (in Mahayana Buddhism, egoism as subject-object dualism is termed vijnana, and is to be succeeded by prajna, the wisdom of non-duality).





    This non-duality or de-emphasis on ';egoism'; is the basis of Buddhism, Taoism, Shintoism, Hinduism, and Confucianism.





    What Kierkegaard termed the ';Ethical sphere,'; or that sphere which develops upon reflection and selection of what is important in the Aesthetic nowness historical experience, is the basis for both the Eastern ethicism and Maslowian social esteem.





    Kierkegaard's summary sphere, the ';Religious'; or ';Spiritual,'; is the realization of the numinous in the Aesthetic and Ethical. This is bodhicitta, or enlightenment, in the Eastern wisdom teachings, what Bergson termed elan vital, and William James identified as the living stream of being undergirding awareness.





    Shan-tao, a 7th century Chinese master of the process, described it in a parable: there is a river, with two currents divided by a thin white line, over which line one must cross, from the illusions and dangers of this impure existence. Lord Gautama urges us to move across the river on this line of Dharma to the Pure Land where Amida Buddha beckons as Immeasurable Light and Life.





    The two currents, one on either side of the white line, are anger as fire, and greed as water: in fine, with the worldly illusions and dangers, constituting what Shan-tao called ';three kinds of imminent death.';





    This understanding parallels Jesus' teaching that those who keep the Word of Life do not see death, and that those who seek to save their mortal existence lose it. Paul's ';I die [ascend] daily'; and Mohammad's ';Die before you die'; import the same understanding.





    On the negative side, typical Eastern lassitude and fatalism, false hierarchical dictatorships by darker leadership, are a result of the lack of what in the West is termed ';enlightened self-interest,'; the ';individuality'; of the pioneer, the small property owners at England's Magna Carta, etc.





    Thus, the true practice of ';self-cultivation,'; whether Kierkegaardian, Maslowian, or Confucian, and so forth, correctly finds Presence--even as ';neti, neti,'; or mastery of Voidness--to be how individuals best contribute to an orderly, ethical society, even a Hobbesian rational morality type of society.





    ';The Path of the Higher Self,'; Mark Prophet, is an excellent teaching example of such ';enlightened self-interest.';Do Eastern society have good standard and values? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    1) Eastern Societies worship the aged, in order to gain Wisdom.





    2) Western Societies worship youth, in order to remain vibrant and alive.





    3) Eastern Socities worship the aged, at the cost of not recognizing the strengths of its youth.





    4) Western Socities worship youth, at the cost of not recognizing the strengths of the aged.





    5) If ever we were to integrate the two-dividing-paradigms of our world { Youth versus Aged } then we realize that both sets of weaknesses and strengths, at least, in capacity are allready within us ready to be tapped into.





    -advice-





    A) Remind Children to respect their Elders without necesarrily obeying them!





    B) Remind our Elders, that it is through Naive-hopes{such as mine} that the world has changed in the history of old for the better, and we shouldn't stifle the youth in their attempts for a better tomorrow, and to intervene only when harm to self or others is likely.Do Eastern society have good standard and values? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?
    remember, these are generalizations.





    Eastern societies often emphasize unity, hard work, group work, modesty, pride, etc... (on the other hand, Western societies emphasize individuality, self-reward, etc...) Obviously, Eastern culture, just like every other culture, has its pluses and minuses. This culture puts great importance on communal activities, forcing its people to work together for a cause. Of course, this is a plus. Though, many times people of Eastern culture lack self-confidence and a sense of individual identity. They may put their own desires to the side to satisfy those around them. On the other hand, this kind of structured society pushes its people to perform to their highest ability. (eastern countries pretty much kill western ones in academic testing, especially at the secondary school level) It emphasizes tolerance, and public modesty.





    Personally, I believe that everything comes out to a perfect balance, or a zero. Everything has its good assets, but also an equal amount of bad ones.

    What is the best relationship advice you can give to a man about women?

    Trying to compile advice from women and men about relationships. What would you tell a man is the best piece of advice about women you know? You can email your advice or tip to relationshiptidbits@gmail.com. Please include your age and gender, and first name last initial if you are comfortable with that. Your advice may be published.What is the best relationship advice you can give to a man about women?
    i would tell the man to learn when to keep his mouth shut and do what has to be done. it makes for a happy marriage. grannybc


    no age, i gave my birthdays awayWhat is the best relationship advice you can give to a man about women?
    I'm a 23 year old woman...the best advice I can give is to listen, just listen and try to understand, if you dont understans what she's saying ask for explinations. Communication is the key to everything.
    respect her, dont do anything violent on her person, when she say NO to sex, accept it, love her, be her friend, look after her if she becomes ill, if you marry, thank her for the things she do, wash iron your clothes, cook clean home, bearing children buy her gifts, take her out often have lots of fun, be honest, be faithful, no cheating on her, give money so she can shop, my age 53, im a female, my hubbie does this im very happy.
    Be honest and be yourself if you are looking for a lasting relationship.
    i give you nothing about my personal thing, but i can give you my piece of advice.





    Don't ever forget those important date, such as her birthday, the anniversary date.
    To love her, show her with little things, notes, etc...


    Don't try to fix everything. Just give her a hug.


    Good luck:)
    To take care of each others feelings as they are your own.





    female, 30 years old and DeMonfort
    Building a data base from anonymous people who might even be complete failures in relationships





    LOL





    That's a good one LOL





    My advice however (and yeah I might even be a wife beater for all you know)





    is to deal with your partner as you would the most important business associate in your life because, quite simply, that is what they are or should be.





    The conversations I have with my wife are very formal and extremely polite.





    We've noticed it veering into more and more formality with the passing of years to the point that if you were to over hear us talking the last thing you would guess is that we're married.





    I talk to my wife as I would to a judge who has the power to put me away for life.
    always make her feel special. dont just do it in the start of the relationship and then stop once you get her. i am a 35 year old female
    Respect yourself and the person you are choosing to be with!
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  • Poll: Can God Give You Advice Or Help You Out With Your Dreams?

    Because I Have This Strong Powerful Dream I Really Want To Happen And I Believe God, Will Help Me Make it Come True..





    Can He? How Will He Know If He Does Help Us? Any Signs Or Something He'll Show Us Or Make Us Feel?Poll: Can God Give You Advice Or Help You Out With Your Dreams?
    He will give you the sign and you will know it. Only you will know.Poll: Can God Give You Advice Or Help You Out With Your Dreams?
    I can't answer this.


    I'll get bashed on for being Christian.
    You have to believe it will happen and GOD will allow it to happen.











    I'm waiting to win the lottery
    God can help with nothing. Ever.
    god can't make anything happen. it's YOU that has to make your dream happen. if you sit around waiting you'll never get anything done.
    I wouldn't answer this either since I'm Christian.

    Can you advice me on electric guitar?

    Well I finally have decided to try to play an electric guitar however I had never play an electric one before, I just played acoustic, so what would be a good guitar for beginners, what kind of amp? any pedals? or do you know any webpage that can educate me?Can you advice me on electric guitar?
    when i first started to play electric guitar my brother gave me an epiphone les paul, this was a very decent guitar for the money, $160 with 10watt amp, gig bag, and other accessories, for the money i think that this is the best deal out there. This guitar is great for beginners, however you will more than likely want to upgrade in a few years seeing as the amp is very small and the pickups tend to have a washed out sound the louder you play it. i have played other bundle package beginner guitars and they are not very good. As for Epiphone guitars in general i am very pleased with them they are quality guitars but are much cheaper than say their counter part Gibsons, seeing as epiphone is a division of gibsion. I have owned two of their guitars and am very satisfied with them both.

    Do you advice a lady to shave also their face?

    If so, why?Do you advice a lady to shave also their face?
    noway !!


    shaving ladies face will make the hair grow back thicker and darker and in the long term it will look like a man's beard..





    best way is threading or waxing or at least bleachingDo you advice a lady to shave also their face?
    I would advise they get some hair remover for their face that is cream instead of shaving it makes stubble it is a embarrassing situation
    waxing or cream hair removal systems work best and i agree stubble is embarassing for women. Id advise AGAINST shaving, but yea they should remove upper lip hair
    If you want to grow a beard and make your hair follicles produce coarse hairs the yes go for it!.
    No way, you will look like a man and have a 5 oclock shadow after a while. Wax it or bleach it. good luck
    nope

    Can you pls send me emo haircut pictures or advice pls?

    i have a long sqarish face...i wan an emo haircut, but i don't know how to tell my hairdresser to cut it...i wear glasses, so some styles may not be good for me...10x a lot!!Can you pls send me emo haircut pictures or advice pls?
    just give them a pic of the cut





    http://images.google.com/images?gbv=2%26amp;hl鈥?/a>





    http://i170.photobucket.com/albums/u248/鈥?/a>





    srry the link didnt work but google images scene hair and click on the blonde withe her fingers in her mothCan you pls send me emo haircut pictures or advice pls?
    STOP coping everyone ok.





    be yourself, it is so lame walking in the mall and seeing people who are such wannabes. BE YOURSELF GOT IT?!





    god... ive been the scene style for like 4 years and im unique





    just dont copy everyone else

    Looking for advice from those of you whose income varies by season?

    My husband is getting moved from motorcyle parts to motorcycle sales which is great for the higher earning potential, but I also understand the earning is very high in the summer, and very low in the winter. I don't want to make the mistake of not saving enough to get through the winter.





    What percentage of his summer income should we tuck away into savings to get us comfortably through the winter?





    I know this will be easy to calculate after he works in sales for a full year, but right now we just have to make our best guess.Looking for advice from those of you whose income varies by season?
    You can't make a 'best guess' without knowing, but you can make a conservative estimate.





    Put 50% of your summer money away to live on during the winter. I know that sounds like a lot, but next year, you'll have a better idea of what you'll need to save.Looking for advice from those of you whose income varies by season?
    I'd save close to 100% of his ';raise'; until you get a better grip on what his income might look like during the cold months.





    In other words, if he was making $3,500 a month and with the new job he brings in a nice $5,500 commission check, then I'd put $2,000 aside that month. I would very much recommend keeping a separate bank account to ';sweep'; the commission checks into.

    I need advice for decorating lockers. do you have an pictures of your lockers. Please show me them. ?

    I really need Help


    Plz send me pictures!!!


    I will give points to best personI need advice for decorating lockers. do you have an pictures of your lockers. Please show me them. ?
    hey i was looking for ideas too!I need advice for decorating lockers. do you have an pictures of your lockers. Please show me them. ?
    i wood give u pics, but this year i get my first locker, so i cant. but, wat im doing with my locker is to take wrapping paper and put that on there. Then u can take some glasses that u dont use, decorate it, and put a magnet so u can put it on the door of ur locker. Remember this: Think of ur locker as ur room. u have to make it stylish, and like a mini me of ur personality. I hope ur locker turns out great!!! :D
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  • I need advice from a dog trainer please and thank you.?

    Here is my problem:


    I have a dog and my boy friend has a dog. My dog is a beagle/jack russell so a small dog she is does not get along with other dogs very well. My boy friends dog is a pure breed Huskie. He is a baby. She is always very aggressive towards him. We keep putting them together and talk them for walks together to get them used to each other. So question is what else can I do to get her to stop being so aggressive towards him for no reason?I need advice from a dog trainer please and thank you.?
    You didn't mention their age. But getting them ';fixed'; (spayed and neutered is a must to calm down their dispositions, especially toward each other, Otherwise, the csual introduction and the socialization is a good way to do it; you'll just have to be patient.I need advice from a dog trainer please and thank you.?
    spay and neutering is a good first step, if your dog has always had trouble getting along with other animals then more socialization is needed, find good offleash dog parks in your area (most cities list them on their websites) do frequent visits with both dogs, (it will help tire the husky puppy out as well) Husky's are VERY high energy dogs and require alot of excersie if the puppy is bored he is more likely to pick on your older dog (just like kids) keep his brain occupied with excersize and socialization, adult dogs that are larger will put the husky in his place and it may help with his forward behaviour with your smaller dog that can't just sholdercheck him and tell him to buzz off.
    They'll learn eventually- theres not much you can do to speed up the process. My dog doesnt like other dogs much at all but over the years we've had several other dogs. Everytime we brought the new pup home he would hate it and avoid it for about 3 months but after that he became best friends with it. Some dogs are just like that.





    spaying and neutering may help but it also may not. A common misconception is that it will make your dog's temperament better and that he will stop being territorial and lifting his leg to pee. My dog(the one who dislikes other dogs) is neutered and has been from a young age- when he was still a puppy- and he lifts his leg when he goes outside, is territorial to an extent and he..er. still has sexual urges,lol. He acts exactly the same way as an unneutered dog would. So just telling you that its not necessarily a fix for your problem. Sometimes it does effect a dog in those ways, but more often than not it doesnt.
    My answer actually comes from a website


    www.badrap.org


    It is a really long blog about how to introduce two dog selective dogs together in the same household without conflict. It is too long to put in my answer so I recommend that you visit the site yourself.


    http://badrap-blog.blogspot.com/2009/08/鈥?/a>

    Hi friends, I am from Brazil. I would like to visit your country. Which place do you advice me to know?

    I have known your country is wonderful. Which city would be better to me to know?Hi friends, I am from Brazil. I would like to visit your country. Which place do you advice me to know?
    yes it is. So if you decide to visit my country Macedonia, I would suggest Ohrid, amazing city, trust me...





    During the day you can go on any of the many beautiful beaches by the shore of the lake, do some shoping, sightseeing in the city or just sit in one of the many caf茅s in any of the narrow streets in the Old Town and enjoy. For all the young people, the nightlife is great and vibrant. The cafes work late at night, but there鈥檙e also so many nightclubs where you can carry on from there.





    For sightseeing, there鈥檙e enormous many old churches, my favourite ones are Plaoshnik, more than 15 centuries old, St. Jovan Caneo, St. Naum鈥?If you climb on the Samuil Fortress, just 5 min from the centre, you get amazing sight on the whole lake.





    The Lake is clean, one of the oldest ones in Europe, from 1980 protected by UNESCO as a place of world cultural and natural inheritance. Most of the lake鈥檚 plant and animal species are endemic, which also makes Ohrid unique. The most famous among these are two types of Ohrid Trout. You should try them prepared on the traditional way. yummy鈥?br>




    Ohrid is also known as the site of the first Slavic university run by St. Clement and St. Naum at the end of the 9th century. Ohrid, also, used to be the centre of the orthodox Christianity in the whole region. There鈥檚 so much history there鈥?





    And DO NOT miss a boat trip on the lake, especially at night, believe me one of a kind experience!!





    I must not forget to mention the hospitability of the people there.





    In the last few years Ohrid is soooo popular among foreign tourists, especially Greeks, Dutchmen, Bulgarians, Serbians etc. So, check it out!!!Hi friends, I am from Brazil. I would like to visit your country. Which place do you advice me to know?
    If you would like to experience the ';city'; life, Washington, DC, New York City, South Beach Miami, Florida, San Francisco, Los Angeles. Parts of Arizona, Scotsdale, are beautiful, etc., Find your interest first, then decide. Our cities, depending on where they are in the states can vary greatly in culture, and nature.
    Venice is such a dream go there!


    What's wrong with you people he is saying Europe
    Tucson, Arizona
    Definitely visit New York City and Los Angeles but depending on your interests look for all kinds of great places in between, just like the other answer said.
    Sweden?





    But make sure u visit during summer coz thats when everyone n everything comes alive.Lotsa concerts %26amp; summer programmes..rather boring during winter..lol...Stockholm is wonderful and has been voted the most beautiful city in europe before some time ago..besides it rumoured that sweden have lotsa beautiful women too..lol...** but then again, every country has their own beauties** :o)

    What advice would you give to me?

    Anything at all, I need all the pointers you can think of.What advice would you give to me?
    Well ...hahaha..I just wouldn''t know where to start!!!...*wink*


    You're good hon...fairly close to perfect from what I can tell...


    hugsWhat advice would you give to me?
    Brush and don't fail to floss





    wear sunscreen





    be the best engineer you can be.





    don't slouch.





    overtip your breakfast waitress





    don't drive like you own the road; you don't.














    You already are the best contact a person can want. There's not need for improvement in that area.
    Stop being such a cheap bassturd!


    Your old pal Rusty needs a new motor on his fhshing boat and he would damn sure like an XL1200 parked in his garage.


    Ya got a nice dog though, stick with them, better company than most people.
    Alcohol + driving = coffin
    Don't eat yellow snow. (Even if someone's keg is leaking, it could still be something else.)
    Work smart, not hard
    don't drink and drive....?

    Did you ever ask a life changing question on Y!A and go through with the advice?

    If so, what was the question? Did you follow through with what the people suggested you do? Did it change your life in a good or bad way? Was it the right choice? I was just wondering - cause I come on here for math homework help, and boy troubles. (:Did you ever ask a life changing question on Y!A and go through with the advice?
    While I've had many helpful answers to my few questions, the BEST advice I got on here was actually an answer to someone else's question. I was answering the question -- and found someone else had posted that dehydration was a common cause of chronic headaches, especially morning headaches.





    Now, I've been treated for chronic migraines for over 10 years, and even with full medication, I had chronic morning headaches that required Excedrin to fix them. So, I started hydrating -- a lot more than usual for me. And the headaches stopped! Even my doctor was amazed and a bit sheepish that he had not been able to come up with this 'fix' himself after all these years. If you've ever suffered from chronic pain, you know how life-changing something like this is.

    What advice do you have for High School Junior year?

    I'm currently a Sophomore.What advice do you have for High School Junior year?
    Junior Year is that year you need to prepare for a bunch of things.


    It's not so easy, but it really depends on your classes and all.


    As someone mentioned before take honors classes and if you can handle it AP classes as well. Don't take too many AP classes though. You really don't want to do that to yourself unless it comes very easy to you. But AP classes (they are an advantage to getting college credits if you pass the AP exam) cost money. If you pass the exam for AP (It costs nearly 80 dollars or so. I am not sure how it is where you live and in your school but I would think somewhere around that cost. Almost at the end of the school year, before finals I am sure someone will come into your class and talk about AP.)





    Anyways so if you want to try a challenge. You can take an AP English or History or whatever. I am sure in your school you have to take the PSAT's as well Junior Year. They aren't going to effect anything. If you get over 2000 I believe it was it'll be a great advantage since I think colleges would offer scholarships. But anyways. I advise you to take the SAT's next year when you're a Junior. You don't want to wait til Senior year to only take them once. If you take it Junior year, you can see how the test is like and if you're not too satisfied with your score you can take them Senior Year. Usually people do a lot better there second time around. But it's up to you.


    If you decide to take them Junior Year. It depends when they have it at your school. But I am sure it's like in November, March, May and June maybe? I can't remember but there are many times you can take them. They do cost money though unfortunately. But if you also take them Senior year take them the earlier which is the better. So that you can apply to colleges.


    Junior Year is where you want to start thinking about Colleges. What's at your best interest and what interests you more than anything else. You DON'T have to know what you want to be at this point or next year or not even Senior year. I know a bunch of people who went to College thinking they want to do this, but by the end of it they end up choosing something different. So don't worry.


    You also have a Junior Paper near the end of the year. It's based on what your English teacher will do with it and when it'll be due. Maybe around April. For Senior Year, you have a Senior Paper as well. But that's another topic. I am not sure about Junior speeches. I think that's just only for Senior year. I am not sure. But yeah Junior year isn't as different as Sophomore year. You don't have anything to worry about. You can take SAT's during Sophomore year if you want. I know a kid who did and he did very well. Lucky him neh? ^.^





    But yeah sorry for this very long explanation. I wish you good luck and you have nothing to worry about~What advice do you have for High School Junior year?
    1- Get a B- or above in EVERY CLASS. I was so dumb my first two years of HS...if you actually do the work teachers will almost always give you a B. I got my GPA up from a 2.23 to a 3.0 with my junior/senior year grades. (unweighted)


    2- Study for your SATS. SATs have tons of questions that ask the same things. By getting a tutor or going to a class you can score a lot higher than you would by just going into it blind. I got a 1940 on mine.


    3- Start looking at schools. It's never too early. If i had to do one thing over again, I would have taken a closer look at a lot more schools





    Good luck man, it's never too late, I was going nowhere my sophmore year and now i'm going to a really prestigious school (WPI if you've heard of it)
    its the best year of high school. have fun, study hard because its also the year colleges look at most. and focus on what colleges your going to be applying to and what you need to do to prepare for that
    Take as many honors and AP classes as you can handle. Get the highest grades you can. This is a year to really study.





    start checking into college too.

    Y/A Republicans Why do you Reject Good advice on how to WIN?

    Republicans seem to be determined to lose





    Any good advice about reach out to non-whites or slap down any hint of racism is met with anger and disgust.





    Why do Republicans reject Good advice?Y/A Republicans Why do you Reject Good advice on how to WIN?
    Yes. Cons are too set in their ways. They want to bring back Reaganomics. They are still mad and bitter because they lost the election. Their party is imploding and have no real leader beside Boss Rush. %26gt;%26lt;Y/A Republicans Why do you Reject Good advice on how to WIN?
    Yes. Republicans reject good advise.


    Extreme left Democrats reject more good advice than most moderate Republicans ever will.


    People in general reject good advise and its not politically motivated.


    The more immature and with less life experience one person has, the more they reject good advise.


    The Democrats are in power with a lot of inexperience, but Obama has the good sense to appointment the more mature experienced people in positions of power, both Democrat and some Republicans, so he can over come the new younger inexperienced Democrats from rejecting good advise.


    I do not think its only the Republicans rejecting good advise and it would be immature to think its only Republicans.
    I think the problem with your ';good advice'; argument is that it's built on a very popular misconception. Liberals keep yelling about the republicans being racists and haters. The fact is, that just isn't true for most. And we're are getting tired of trying to prove a negative. We have fundamental disagreements with Pres. Obama and the democratic party's policies. That's it. That would be true regardless of who the President was if he had the same agenda.


    I'm a white guy. If I have a disagreement with another white guy, it's a disagreement. If I have a disagreement with a black guy, it's racist? If a black guy has a disagreement with me, would that racist too? Evidently it's a one way street in the minds of democrats.


    If you think the democratic party is truly enhancing the well-being of the minorities that are a big part of it's voting block, you like most have a very short term outlook.
    Republicans live in cocoons where they listen only to news that pushes a far right view, talk only to those who agree (or dismiss any disagreement as being from idiots, as can be found 1,000 times an hour on Y!A) and convince themselves that their beliefs are popular, and the only legitimate views. Thus they see no need for change. It will take a few more electoral crushes to get them to wake up and smell reality. After all, a substantial percentage of Republicans believe that evolution never happened. To be a mainstream Republican it is now almost required to believe that reducing taxes increases tax income and that there is no anthropogenic climate change. (That means caused by humans, for all you Republicans.) These are people who don't really respond to logic or evidence.
    I am a registered Democrat, and in the state where I live, one must vote in the ';primary'; as one is registered.. I voted for Hillary Clinton. She didn't win, so I voted for John McCain at the next vote.





    My Native American Indian ancestors were ';forced'; from land they had lived on for hundreds of years. Their children were ';taken'; from them and placed in government boarding schools, to be assimilated into the ';white'; world, punished if they were ';caught'; speaking in their language, or observing their tribal rituals. A Democractic president, Andrew Jackson, was a major factor in my ancestors being removed from their ancestral lands. The Supreme Court ruled for the Indians to stay on their land. Andrew Jackson said, ';Let them try to enforce the ruling';, and immediately gave orders to the military to remove the Indians.





    Do not speak to me about ';reaching out'; to non-whites or racism. My ancestors lived with it, and in many states, still do. Many Native American Indians ';married';, ';co-habited';, and bore children of men and women who were not of their ';race';.





    Obama is a product of inter-racial marriage. His father was from Kenya, his mother from a well-to-do ';white'; family. He was abandoned by his father and his mother, and left in the care of his mother's mother. Obama's father and mother were both ';free spirits';, determined to pursue their interests.





    I admire Obama for ';overcoming'; and ';compensating'; for his early childhood; but, I don't accept him, or the Democratic party, as ';savior';; not do I accept the Republican party as ';savior';.





    Since the ';founding'; of America, Democrats and Republicans have rejected ';good'; advice, and neither party has a ';guarantee'; of winning.
    While it is lovely that you are trying to help others, I really don't like the idea of giving advice to Republicans. I haven't really enjoyed the past 8 years and wouldn't like to see a return to that. Frankly, I am thrilled that they refuse to listen to your advise. Lets stop helping them out politically speaking. If you would like to help them with something else, I'm all for it!!
    Not interested in ';winning'; the GOP anything, although I consider myself conservative. If they are deceitful, weird, or straddling the fence to ';appease';, they don't get my vote.





    The racism argument is ridiculous to me. It's an excuse from the other side to ignore real facts and real progress.





    I figure now that we have a black president, people can get off the racism bandwagon to push their cause through, and stop trying to make me feel guilty for anything. I never oppressed a person, not on the basis of color or anything else. So stick that in yer pipe and smoke it!
    They use to say that democrats were of the Heart and Republicans were of the Brain. This no longer applies. They Hate every group in America except 1, and they cannot bring themselves to play nice with the rest of us for political gain.
    Because of the source. I know for the uninformed like yourself the opposition does not want to be like the ';in power'; otherwise like ll the countries Obama seems to admire there would be no choice. Have your parents explain this theory to you.
    Wow do you even know anything about politics or to you just go on saying stuff that isnt true? Immature Libs....Study the libs, and you will see how immature they are
    Republicans do know how to win and will in the next election.
    the opposing side giving advice on how to win? now that is rich.
    I am multiracial and I am a Republican - how does that fit into your very limited world view?
    Because I don't agree that a fascist nanny state is the solution...
    People don't HAVE to believe all races are equal.





    Who are you to tell others how to think?
    Why don't you stop hating whites?
    If Rush didn't tell them it was good advice it wasn't.





    The Y/A republicans embarrass real republicans. Remember Y/A Republicans the world is laughing at you, not with you!
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  • What sould you do if you need legal advice but you are extremely intimidated by lawyers?

    most lawyers will give a free 10 min consultation depending on the severity of the situation you may be able to get some direction. I went through my employee assistance program at work and was able to schedule a brief consultation over the phone. I felt more comfortable on the phone because the was no pressure to sign any paperwork

    Ever had a gay guy offer you fashion advice?

    Maybe out of the blue?


    Did you take it?Ever had a gay guy offer you fashion advice?
    Yeah, and he worked at the store, so I made him come into the dressing room with me, left my zipper down and asked him to check the crotch. He did, saw it unzipped, looked at me a litlle scared, I pulled him up and planted a big wide open kiss on him, graabbed his butt, and we dated until I went away to college. By that time I had a great wardrobe.Ever had a gay guy offer you fashion advice?
    No, I'm the one offering it.


    My mom always asks me if something looks good together


    HAHA she's so oblivious.
    Funny thing is, they never outright offered me advice. They went straight to augmenting what I wore, lol.






    Yeah.....I do. Many times. Even straight guys do that to me too. I'm gay and I flunk my fashion.....
    Yes, I have.





    My sense of fashion sucks, so yeah, I took it :D
    No, not yet
    Not yet lol

    I've recently become a spice boy. Any advice you can give to me to help me on my way?

    Wear your hair spiked up with gobs of gel (:


    Wear labels, tight t-shirts, put a lot of effort into your appearance.


    Usually, spice boys wear designer clothes, pink t-shirts, expensive tops such as vests with pricey jeans, and trainers.I've recently become a spice boy. Any advice you can give to me to help me on my way?
    DISCO Babay!I've recently become a spice boy. Any advice you can give to me to help me on my way?
    WTF
    What is a spice boy?
    sorry, I don't know what a spice boy is.

    What advice do you have for dealing with disappointment?

    Like when you expect something great to happen and then it doesn't. or when you're suppossed to see someone you miss and then circumstances prevent it ...What advice do you have for dealing with disappointment?
    you take the good with the bad..


    There is always 2 sides to every possibility. It goes hand in hand.





    life is what you make of it. only you can make yourself happy.


    if you have found that something has disappointed you....well then you let it disappoint you.


    in life you have to experience both the good and the bad...to be able to understand the meaning of feelings.








    .What advice do you have for dealing with disappointment?
    there all ways going to be disappointment! you just go to go with the flow a deal with it!
    realize that disappointments are a part of life-------like the saying goes '; if there hasn't been any rain in your life wait awhile';
    Just take things as they come.. Learn to make the best of things. THINGS HAPPEN FOR A REASON!

    If you are pro-breastfeeding I need your advice?

    I have a dilemma. I have a 5 week-old baby that I have been exclusively breastfeeding. I have begun to show symptoms of post-partum depression %26amp; have also been very anxious. I had ppd with my other child too %26amp; it got very bad before I would accept help. I was convinced that I was a terrible mother %26amp; that he was better off without me. It would break my heart if I had to stop bfeeding in order to take meds. I know some meds are considered safe, however, my dummy psychiatrist refuses to give me anything because ';he doesn't feel comfortable with it';. So then basically he is putting me in a position where I have to decide to either suffer w/ the ppd %26amp; do the right thing for my baby or to stop bf %26amp; take the meds. What should I do? I am so heartbroken already.If you are pro-breastfeeding I need your advice?
    Get a second opinion. See your obstetrician, he/she probably knows more about the subject than a psychiatrist and treats women in the same situation all the time. Zoloft is considered extremely safe while breastfeeding; millions of breastfeeding mothers have used it.If you are pro-breastfeeding I need your advice?
    I had PPD with each of my sons and had successful and healthy breastfeeding relationships with each of them. (thrush problems aside! lol)





    Definately see your OB rather than this psychiatrist. I am sorry that this man is being uneducated about this issue. See your OB and be sure to discuss your options and other health issues and reactions to medications that you have had. Each patient will have different meds. I was on Lexapro and Welbutrin. The combination worked best with my body chemistry. Both were safe for me and baby. I hope that you soon find a solution to you PPD. Hugs!!!
    I took Zoloft on the recommendation of my old OB who was one of the authors of the study at Case Western University that confirmed the safeness of nursing mothers using it. My milk never had it in it! I was taking 100mg then 150mg and it never was passed into my milk. I would see an OB for this because they tend to read the news that relates to their patients and are usually better equiped to deal with PPD.
    I am so sorry! I breastfed all of my children. Although I never had PPD, I did end up with severe depression later on. I am now completely recovered - thank God!


    I guess I would talk to your OB/Gyn - who can also prescribe antidepressants. I agree that it's best to use a psychiatrist, but you're dealing with newborn baby and nursing and hormones too. I don't know myself what is safe/unsafe to take. I believe others have had meds and continued to nurse. You would only want to if you were absolutely assured it would be okay and extensive testing has been done with that drug and nursing.


    The worst case scenario - you have to stop nursing in order to get better. It's not the end of the world. Your baby has already been nursed for the most important stage - newborn to now! You did it! If you had to put the baby on formula, it would not be as beneficial as breastmilk, that's true - but it would not be all bad. You need to focus on getting the help to make you feel better - there is NOTHING more important than your babies having their mom and their mom being healthy!


    Call around. Get lots of opinions. Ask your pharmacist too about what he/she thinks/knows about the subject. Then you will be able to make the best decision you can!


    You're trying to be the best mom you can be - that's all we can do! I'm not perfect, neither is anyone else. If one mom can breastfeed and one can't - it doesn't make the nursing mom more worthy or special. Life isn't perfect, so all we can do is do our best and move forward. I think the worst thing would be ignoring symptoms and letting ppd get stronger.


    It's possible that increasing your excercise level, taking your prenatals, eating super healthy will help balance you out too, without meds. Maybe there's a hormone based treatment that would help? PPD is probably caused directly from the decrease and imbalance of hormones. You can breastfeed while on some low dose birthcontrol pills - I wonder if that would help? I would be asking my OB about it if it were me.


    Excercise always made me MUCH improved. Watch funny movies and LAUGH a lot. Laughter is one of the most healing things we have to fight depression.


    I hope it all works out the way you want it to - I hope you can concentrate on how beautiful your baby is and how blessed your children are to have YOU as their mom! You're irreplaceable in their eyes! Best Wishes!!!
    Go see a different doctor. There are many PPD drugs that are safe to take while breastfeeding. Call an lactation consultant and your OB they will both be able to point you in the right direction. You don't have to stop breastfeeding so you can receive treatment.


    And i agree your psychiatrist is a dummy, i think he needs to go back to medical school.
    Get a different psychiatrist, or take him the research if he's too lazy to look it up himself.





    There are lots of medications that you can take while breastfeeding. Anecdotally, half of my friends have used depression meds while nursing. You're right, you can make the decision to keep nursing AND get yourself taken care of.





    If this guy is unwilling to help you, then he needs to get out of your way. Get a second opinion. You might have to educate HIM if he won't help you. Don't forget, you are his boss, you employ him, you pay him, he needs to work with you to accomplish your goals. If he can't support nursing, which is the BEST for the baby AND you, then you should consider someone else. Frankly, since nursing releases prolactin and oxytocin, two proven hormones that relax you and make you happier, I'm surprised he doesn't do EVERYTHING in his power to make sure you keep nursing.





    Essentially, Zoloft and Paxil seem to be the safest choices with the lowest transfer in milk. Lithium is one of the dangerous choices. If your doctor won't listen to you, send him the link to the Kelly Mom site or encourage him to pick up a book specifically dealing with medications and nursing moms (like ';Clinical Therapy in the Breastfeeding Patient, Medications and Mother's Milk, Drugs during Pregnancy and Lactation.) All of those books are pro-breastfeeding books that detail what drugs are OK and which aren't.





    Here is the list I got from Kelly Mom and linked below.





    Specific drugs discussed:





    * Prozac is the only drug ';cleared by the FDA'; for use during pregnancy. A mother on Prozac during pregnancy may wish to change drugs before birth or immediately after, or titrate the dose down in the last trimester since the existing blood plasma level in the newborn fetus plus the drug transfer through milk may lead to toxicity. Its effects on the breastfed infant have been reported in infants 2 months old or less.


    * Zoloft is the ';best drug choice so far';. It has a low, low transfer rate to breastmilk (17-173 ug/liter) in mothers taking up to 150 mg/day. In one excellent study of 11 mother/infant pairs, the zoloft was undetectable in 7 of the 11 breastfeeding infants' serum and minimal in the other infants. In two other studies of one and three mother/infant pairs respectively, zoloft was undetectable in the plasma of all 4 infants. A theoretical concern with Zoloft is that some babies may not gain weight as rapidly or as well when breastfed by moms on Zoloft; so weight gain should be monitored and dosage tweaked as necessary.


    * Paxil has low blood plasma levels in the mother, and a low transfer rate to human milk. It was undetected in the blood plasma of 7 of 8 breastfed infants in one study, all 16 of the infants in a second study, and all 24 of the infants in a third study. For babies exposed to paxil in utero, there is evidence that withdrawal may occur 24-48 hours after birth.


    * Celexa has a 4.3-16 nanogram/kg blood plasma level, but transfer rate is higher via milk. Use with caution and watch infant for side effects (per Hale, ';There have been two cases of excessive somnolence, decreased feeding, and weight loss in breastfed infants.';).


    * Effexor is a popular drug for treating depression in Australia. It is less popular here in the USA due to reported side effects. Effexor can also be used in breastfeeding mothers if it is efficacious. It may be effective against hyperactivity. It is an SSRI and NRI.


    * St. John's Wort is a weak SSRI. It also stimulates liver enzymes and may enhance the metabolism of other drugs. German varieties are found to be the most pure in independent testing; other brands may have contaminates and not be very pure. Documented drug-drug interactions have been found; the action of St. John's Wort on the liver can accentuate the metabolism of many drugs. For example, St. John's Wort may reduce the efficacy of birth control pill regimens, although this has not been documented.


    * Bupropion has a high milk to plasma ratio, and is excellent for use in smoking cessation programs. It may reduce the milk supply but as yet this is undocumented.


    * Lithium use by the breastfeeding mother is dangerous to the breastfed infant.


    * Valium use by the breastfeeding mother entails a greater risk of infant sedation, and may perhaps increase the risk of SIDS.


    * Tricyclics - many have significant side effects in mothers including dry mouth, constipation and other anticholinergic symptoms. Thus they are not overly popular with patients. Generally, tricyclics have a poor transfer to milk with the exception of Doxepin, which has a higher transfer rate. Long-term effects are unknown.
    Talk to your ob/gyn right away. They will be able to recommend something for you. Good for you for asking for help right away. As a mom, you think you need to ';suck it up'; and deal but that is not true. If you are not healthy, you cannot take good care of your children. Try to stick to bf as long as you can BUT if you have to stop or need to stop for your own sanity, please do not feel like a failure. You need to do what is best in your own life, not listen to other people who put pressure on you. Good luck.
    I can understand your dilemma there are never any fair choices some days but here is what I would do....





    Your baby is safer with your mental health taken care of first so that should be your major priority.





    Next you have a couple of options....you can give yourself 2 very well supervised weeks to just pump and pump and then start meds and your baby will benefit by having your breast milk which can last another 6 weeks or you can check with your local LeLecheLegue on where to find a breast milk bank and you can continue to give your baby breast milk although it's not yours.





    Also if you are looking to simulate the entire process they do have a bag that you can wear that has a straw that goes down to your nipple that the baby then suckles from you but gets the healthy bagged milk. You would need to be sure that you totally no longer make milk to try that as any of your meds will harm the child.





    Please keep in mind millions of babies have NEVER been nursed and they are doing great, You need to first keep your children safe then figure out how to feed them.





    good luck
    Maybe you should try counseling and talking it out as opposed to taking medications. There are alot of things you can do in that regard. It's good that you know you are at risk. It's a shame you're experiencing symptoms again. If you can't work through it with counseling then you may have to go on medication and switch the baby to formula. Either way you need to do what is best for yourself and your baby and realize that your baby has reaped many benefits of your 5 weeks of breastfeeding. Many babies never get breastmilk at all and go straight to formula. So you've already given your baby a head start in that way. If you're up for it you could even pump and save some breastmilk for when you go on medication. That way you could continue giving the baby breastmilk. The symptoms and risks of ppd can be deadly. So take care of yourself and your little one and that's the best thing you can do.

    [LADIES ADVICE]How do you keep a girl interest? (guys too if you want)?

    I can only talk to the girl over the net, txt, and calls, because she lives too far. Btw, she is going to visit me during school breaks + she is moving down where I live for college


    How do you keep a girl interested in the meantime?[LADIES ADVICE]How do you keep a girl interest? (guys too if you want)?
    for me, distance is the most interesting thing ever...


    my boyfriend and i were separated for more than a year, since he moved to Argentina for a while. first it was excruciating, but then, we arranged phone dates, and kept texting and instant messaging.


    with this, you will not get her love, but her FRIENDSHIP, and when she moves to the place you are now, your relationship will be stronger and longer lasting, because you will be more than boyfriend and girlfriend, you will be the best best friends ever.


    Try to talk about everything, keep her updated with what you do with your life, ask her about what she has been up to... show her that you care and even though you are apart, you spend -INVEST- time on her, your friendship and your relationship.


    best wishes!:D[LADIES ADVICE]How do you keep a girl interest? (guys too if you want)?
    im your girl for this one. me and my bf were in a long distance relationship for 11 1/2 months (now live together happily) and it was extremely hard because you can only talk so much and then you are just repeating yourself. one thing my bf did is he would mail me random letters and cards. one time he just wrote in big letters i love you and mailed it to me. its the sweetest thing ever, and so much better then a text trust me, she will love it. also send a little beanie baby or flower here and there.
    It's evident that you are keeping her interested with the communication the two of you already have. I would suggest email, because that's a huge way I stay in contact with people I care about, and it's a portal to say much more about you or your day than you can in a text. Plus it's exciting to get a long message from a friend. I love those. Other than that, stay true to yourself, and you should be fine.
    Bro... Great Question... Women are very hard to keep interested for long periods of time when you aren't with each other. So what you need to do is make sure she knows where you are at with her(how you feel about her). Make sure you stay in contact with her, like if you're supposed to call, you better call. Don't leave her in the dark about anything, so make sure you let her know that you will be honest with her and if she has any questions that you will answer truthfully. You should have no problem keeping a girl interested that way. If you're looking for more of an edgy way to do it... I teach Players 101 to my buddies... Drop me an email or just tell me if you want to know the shady *** way to do it... Good luck!
    just talk to her. me and my boyfriend are dealing with a long-distance relationship right now and its tough but its totally worth it. just keep her filled in. let her know how college is going, what you're doing, etc,. make sure she knows you want to keep in touch.
    dont worry about it, when she moves close to you she will have you as the closest connection so you are set. just keep interacting. when she is close to you things will be much easier
    Send her gifts, letters (romantic ones), send pictures of you and call her everyday..you must talk to her on daily basis and make sure she knows you like her and her ONLY
    Tell her about how great it will be when she comes to keep excitement





    send pics


    tell her how much you care
    be funny and understanding
    be funny ii love funny :D and dont be a creep like why are u ignoring my text. y didn tu text me back..etc...i hate that ****
    get webcams (my gf resuses =P) and then just whip it out
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  • Allergy Advice: What Works Best for You-- Pills of Otherwise?

    Now that the ragweed is flowering, I'm miserable. (constantly runny, itchy eyes, running nose, sneezing persistently, raw skin under the nose, and I feel like I have a cold)





    Any suggestions? What pills work best for you other brave allergy sufferers? (I like to live my life, go bicycling, hiking, and stuff, which makes it far worse too. But even in the house it's terrible.)





    I have found that Claritin doesn't help me at all when it gets this bad. I even took one today, with little to no impact.





    I prefer over-the-counter solutions. Let me know what works best for you. :) Help me not have to feel horrible for the next month-and-a-half to two months!Allergy Advice: What Works Best for You-- Pills of Otherwise?
    Claritin only works if you take it on a daily basis whether you're suffering or not. It's meant to control long-term allergies. Claritin D is what you can take when you suffer an allergy outbreak (stuffy nose, head, etc.). I find the 12 hour works better than the 24 hour for some reason. You can also try Sudafed for the outbreaks. You're going to have to do a trial and error. Some drugs work better than others. I can't take the generic brands as they make me too jittery.Allergy Advice: What Works Best for You-- Pills of Otherwise?
    Maximum Strength Sinus %26amp; Allergy Walgreens brand. Cheaper then Tylonal one. And I found it works as well. I have severe allergies. I have taken Claritin D and a few others perscripion strength even. I got rebound headaches from it. That was worse then the allergy attack.


    I tried Flonaze. yuk.


    Then i found if i boil water once a week four big pots full on the stove it grabs the particuls in the air. (2 to 4 hours) It also makes me feel better after I mow. Be prepared to blow your nose.


    Also i know runners that place vasoline on the edge of there nostrils to catch air born particals. Then blows after the run.
    if u have allergy to polen every year u should go to the allergologist to find out what plant causes u that; for pollen and some acarians there r some vaccines u get each month for less than 3 years and u will be hyposenzitized to it.


    i also did that for an acarian and now i breath much better in dust.


    also when i sneeze, breathing on my nose salted water helps, but go to the dr ; i didn't and now i have asthma; don't play with allergies

    What advice would you give to a 19, 21, 25, and 30 year old?

    enjoy life and dont let it pass you by- but work hard and be sucessful. have a proud sence in what you have accomplished.


    love and be loved.


    accept every person you met


    treat you babies with kindness and have a heart.


    watch you beautiful children grow up- dont stick them in


    a daycare all day





    love the life you live.What advice would you give to a 19, 21, 25, and 30 year old?
    to the 19 year old: go to college. to the 21 year old, don't drink and drive, to the 25 year old, enjoy the rest of your 20's because they are going to be over before you know it. to the 30 year old, if you haven't already done so, it's time to start saving.What advice would you give to a 19, 21, 25, and 30 year old?
    Spend your time wisely.


    The sexy mama below me is right, too.
    dont blink. life flies by way to fast!
    none as they all adults and have a brain..

    I am going to be studying abroad in Barcelona this spring. Do you have any advice or tips?

    This is my first study abroad, but I'm originally from Europe, and have traveled extensively. I will be in Barcelona, working on my MBA for 7 months at EAE. I am really excited, but haven't lived in Spain before, and would love any advice you can give me. I currently go to grad school in the U.S.I am going to be studying abroad in Barcelona this spring. Do you have any advice or tips?
    1. Learn (basic) Spanish.





    2. Read the book ';Barcelona';by Robert Hughes.





    3. Buy the latest edition of the Time Out Guide Barcelona - the best travel guide about this city.





    4. Check out the cultural weekly BCN Week and the magazine Barcelona Metropolitan, to get a feeling of what's going on in the city.


    http://www.barcelona-metropolitan.com/


    http://www.bcnweek.com/





    5. Be prepared: housing is not hard to find, but the prices are high. Expect to pay 350-600 euro's a month for a room in a shared apartment.





    6. Read about the different neighborhoods of Barcelona before you arrive. That makes it easier to find accommodation.





    7. Book a hostel for the first days and start looking for a room.





    8. Climb up the Montjuic mountain, see Barcelona from above, take a caf茅 cortado on the terrace of Bar Miramar and enjoy the spectacular view.





    :))I am going to be studying abroad in Barcelona this spring. Do you have any advice or tips?
    learn some basic Spanish before you make friends with local people learn more Spanish as much as u can this extra language will come in handy for ur future career as Spanish is the 2nd most spoken language in the world relax and enjoy ur self it will be so much fun

    What are the best bits of beauty advice you've ever gotten?

    People are most radiant when they let their inner beauty shine through.What are the best bits of beauty advice you've ever gotten?
    Make it look natural. Instead of putting on bright green eyeshadow with blue blush and purple lipstick try to simple enhance what you already have. If you have a zit you can use some cover up or touch up your eyes with a bit of eyeliner and mascara. If you want to make you lips look cute choose a color close to you natural shade. It can be glossy but also just remember you are beautiful the way you are.What are the best bits of beauty advice you've ever gotten?
    Sleep, sleep, sleep. Get your 8 hours a night. That's #1. After that, decide what your best appearance strengths are and use your colors, style and choices to cause the eye to focus on the strengths.
    You can wear as much makeup as you want. Just use a LITTTLE LITTLE bit of everything . Try to look natural. Guys like girls more when they don't look ';made up';.
    When you have big bags under your eyes instead of concealer, you can soak cotton balls in cold milk and place them under your eyes for ten minutes :)
    Smile and for the love of God use sunscreen.
    SMILE :-) :-) :-) :-) :-)
    less is more :)

    Do your friends come to you for advice?

    The teens in yahoo answers usually answer questions as good as adults.





    Usually when people ask their peers questions like the ones asked here, they would say ';I don't know';.Do your friends come to you for advice?
    Yeh :]





    All my friends always come and talk to me about problems. I think it's nice to be trusted like that. They always talk to me and tell me what's worrying them and even if I can't always help, it's nice to have someone to talk to.





    That's why I love this site! :] I get to help people! There are some people who still answer ';i don't know'; to questions on here just to annoy people. :P I feel like shouting ';Well stop wasting your time!';Do your friends come to you for advice?
    Kind of.





    My best friend said ';you should be a therapist. Wait, no, because you believe too strongly in tough love';. So, I guess I'm okay at advice.





    Some people think that I give the worst advice in the world, and they would never ask me to help. Others think that I give really good advice, and they come to me with everything.





    I think a good amount of people would be surprised I'm a TC on yahoo answers...
    Yeah, they do, because they know I wont make fun of them for their problems, or because I can always think of a good answer or help them out with it. They know I like helping, so they usually ask me questions when they have a problem.





    But sometimes I do have my days.. lol. They kinda have to sit me down so I can listen straight. I'll be like, sugar high or something, and they'll be like ';MY BOYFRIEND JUST BROKE UP WITH ME!!'; Lol





    KawaiiPOP♥
    Yes, my friends ALWAYS come to me. They tell me that I should be a psychologist, a therapist, or a teen suicide hotline dispatcher, because I'm a good listener, and I'm always willing to help. I'm actually considering becoming a psychologist or a therapist or a teen suicide hotline dispatcher. Haha.
    Yes they do come to me.





    I honestly feel like it's a lot easier to give advice to people on Y!A thought because 1. you don't know them personally, therefore you have no opinion of them. and 2. it's not face to face which takes some pressure of your back.
    my friends come to me for advice alot


    just now my friend(val) told me that her friend(sapphira) asked vals guy friend(friends w/ benfits) if she was mad at sapphira





    shes really mad about it because sapphira could have just asked val instead of the guy





    so know im trying to cheer her up
    They normally do come to me. They know that I know a lot of things regarding certain aspects of life, despite being fifteen years old. They also come to me for help with their homework or whenever they didn't understand something they read.
    Yep, sometimes. Usually we all know each other's issues anyway...but then again, I act differently in real life than I do on Y!A. I think I'm better at giving advice on here.
    yeah


    i'm usually the friend that listens


    and they're the ones that talk


    for some reason my friends have so much drama in their lives


    but they're still awesome
    My friends come to me for advice sometimes. Mostly my friends don't need this sort of advice. But if they do they come to me.
    My friends dont come to me, I dont come to them.








    I get more help here.
    Yep. They always come to me with their problems. I help them just like I help people on here.
    Yep, they all do and a lot and I help them all as best I can!
    yes, like, always.
    its easier to tell what you really think to people you dont know
    Yes.

    Can you help me with some flirting advice?

    i suck at flirting any advice?Can you help me with some flirting advice?
    Flirting only works if you have confidence. NEVER say you suck at it, that makes it true!





    Smile, and smile often. Act (or be) interested in the person and their life. Come up with some good 'lines' and practice them, in the mirror if you need to.





    And never, never, ever pretend to be something you aren't.Can you help me with some flirting advice?
    just be yourself and talk to a friend to go with you to get started them when she thinks you got it then she will leave and you'll be able to talk to that guy i know how it feels but on the bus i got really good at talking to boys because i was calm and acting normal and down to earth





    hope this helps
    be funny... smile... and subtly touch them... they'll be yours.
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  • Do you laugh when people give real advice to your joke questions?

    Yep...Do you laugh when people give real advice to your joke questions?
    yes i ask ';what do i do, my balls itch'; and they answer well maybe you could get a medicated ointment or powder. this could be serious get to a doctor quickly. haha i love them.Do you laugh when people give real advice to your joke questions?
    Yes I love it. It's funnier when you don't know what to say next because you had no idea the person was going to answer like that.
    That is the best laugh of my day
    Will you laugh at this?
    ..joke questions?
    A blonde drowned a fish...





    give me an advice
    ya, i told everyone a fake story of how my best friend used me. everyone believed it!!
    lol...yeah that shiiit cracks me up
    ha yes.

    What's the best bit of life advice that you have ever been given?

    This isn't advice given specifically to me, but I try to follow it nonetheless. The closer you get to balance in your life, the happier you'll be:





    ADVICE TO MY SON





    The trick is to live every day as if it is your last.


    (for young men lose their lives in strange and unimaginable ways)


    but at the same time plan long range


    (for if you survive the shattered windshield and the bursting shell


    you will arrive at our approximation here below heaven or hell)





    To be specific, Between the peony and the rose


    plant squash, spinach, turnips and tomatoes


    Beauty, is nectar


    And nectar, is a desert saves-


    But the stomach craves stronger sustenance


    Then the honied vine





    Therefore, Marry a pretty girl


    after meeting her mother


    show your soul to one man


    work with another


    and always serve bread with your wine





    but son


    always serve wine.


    What's the best bit of life advice that you have ever been given?
    ar5e

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    What's the best bit of life advice that you have ever been given?
    That would be the one that I did not listen to, obviously. This is the fact that I have been my good share of advice over the years of my life, some good, some bad, some certain in their effect and some a little dodgy as for instance the one I received about matter relating the opposite sex, but there seldom has been a chance when I listened and found myself obliged to act accordingly. Sometimes, I feel angry when someone tires to advise me, and sometime grateful, as when I consider people more for their kindness and concern than for their wisdom. I often think the very fact that someone is interested in your affairs and wants to help out should be enough, without anyone supposedly in possession of better knowledge having to be intrusive. In simple words, I would say, I really haven鈥檛 learnt to take advice; I hardly manage to listen.





    I missed something very important in life, but I have been advised through multiple sources, as for instance, this is only people directly conversing with me but I have also find many valuable gems of wisdom while overhearing proceedings of life around me, and also, perhaps most importantly from many good books that I have been studying. Once I read somewhere a father saying to his son: 鈥榤y son, do whatever you may like but never be mean'. I do not really know as what is it like being mean, whatever that may be, this sounds to me like a best piece of advice so far.
    Truly -- without doubt -- the greatest and most useful piece of advice I've ever been given...





    ';You don't know your own argument until you can make your opponent's argument better than he can.';





    I promise you -- if you follow this advice religiously, you'll never lose another debate.





    Cheers, mate.
    Don't accept advices,only suggestions - I like this because it means that whatever people try to tell you,it's just information you can work with,not necessarily something you have to do. So the choice will always be up to you.
    Always look for contentment in life, in whatever situation you find yourself in. The more contentment you put in there is less room for unhappiness. Happiness is fleeting contentment is permanent.
    Actually two things.


    Always look at the situation and think:


    ';There, but for the Grace of God, goes I';





    What ever you do in life,


    ';Don't lose your credibility';
    While its always ok for you to hold to your opinions, you should take the time to listen to other peoples views and try to understand and respect their position.
    Don't take advice! These are thoughts and opinions of another person. Only you can best deal with your own situations.
    G Find the best mental tool you can and use it consistently. For me that has turned out to be the life decryption key.
    always have comfortable shoes and comfortable bed; If you're not in one, you're in the other.
    Life is too short to not be busy. And on the flip side: Life is what happens when you're busy making plans.
    Good advice is always ignored.
    Never argue with an idiot, no one can tell the difference.
    To work hard and do your best...that's all you can do.
    Shoot for the moon, because if you fail you'll fall among the stars
    Never take a laxative and a sleeping pill at the same time.
    keep taking the tablets
    Breathe.
    NEVER GIVE UP .
    Read
    What is the worse thing that could happen to you?
    don't pee into the wind
    Be yourself, no matter what x

    Dog people. Do you have any fundraising advice or ideas?

    I am the captain of my team raising money for a Walk-a-thon for homeless animals on September 12th.





    With the economy not being the best, we are WAY UNDER where we were last year money wise.





    I'm not attractive enough to prostitute myself for $, but any other thoughts for raising a few dollars?





    Maybe offer to shave my head if my co-workers can raise $200?





    Just freethinking here peeps.





    ThanksDog people. Do you have any fundraising advice or ideas?
    I was doing some fundraising last year, and we did things like Carwashes, and a garage sale...I got a whole bunch of friends to donate stuff they just wanted to get rid of and then all the money from the garage sale went to my cause. We also did a bake sale...that was okay, but kind of alot of work. Also, a letter, with very wonderful pictures that you could pass around to local businesses. Alot of businesses will donate to things like this for the tax write off.Dog people. Do you have any fundraising advice or ideas?
    Just make the cause known...get the vets, animal shelters and humane society to endorse the cause.


    there's plenty of people will sponsor the cause just for what the cause is, because they love animals. You certainly don't need gimics or 'prostitution'; to motivate dog-lovers to support help for homeless dogs.
    That's cool that you can do things with your co-workers like that...





    if you're willing to shave your head that would be fun! or I'm sure you could come up with lots of other daring things they would be willing to put some money in to see. Ask them if they have any wild ideas too.





    or on the conservative side, maybe a basket raffle?





    Garage sale?





    Craig's list posting even asking for donations?





    make sure to remind them that they can get a tax-deductable receipt. for any money given to the charity! That loosens up their wallets a little too.
    Prepare a generic letter asking for corporate sponsorships and deliver them by hand to local businesses. Let them know that if they donate $50 or more you will do the walk-a-thon wearing their logo on your T-Shirt. Buy a plain white T-Shirt and some iron-on transfers from Staples (http://www.staples.ca/ENG/Catalog/cat_sk鈥?/a> then you can transfer all of the logos of the companies that support you! You can especially try at local pet shops %26amp; animal feed stores. They get the advertising opportunity plus are giving to a great cause.
    I have just started a great unique fundraiser. It is an online local business directory. It makes lots a money, with no initial outlay and is easy to manage, it also helps to link the community. Check it out at SpiderWebsites.com.au under the fundraising tab.
    You can see if you can find a vet who will do a low cost rabies clinic for you.





    Set up an account with igive.com





    See if one of the local stores will let you set up a booth at their store. Make sure you put out donation containers.
    wow for only $200 youll shave the head....we must be going through hard times...





    sell cookies, car washes...i dunno there has to be many dog lovers willing to donate time or money..





    good luck badly..
    If you shave your head and send me a pix I will send you a check for $50.
    what doing a fundraiser that involves car washes or pet grooming's/baths or a bake sale

    Do any of you have advices on how I should go about dealing with this situation?

    This is a bit long so please bear with me. I'm trying to gather more opinions although I've asked this question before. So here it goes...





    At my university, there's this guy who I've known since first year (I'm in second year by the way) but I've always seen him as a friend and nothing more since I had a boyfriend last year. Every time when we went out last year, we always had at least three or more people so we've never been alone together. However, he happened to be in my tutorial this year and at first, I still thought of him the same way as before but after the first class, he asked me to take the subway with him since we both commute and it was a night class. It was only the two of us and we had a nice long conversation while we were together and I felt this deeper connection towards him that I've never had with him before. It was a few days later when I finally realized that I actually fell for him after that night no matter how much I tried denying it.





    During the second class, he leaned over really close to look at my homework and his cheeks were right in front of my face and I felt that he was taking a couple of glances at me during class while we were sitting right beside each other. However, during the first tutorial, he sat straight up in a firm and macho way as opposed to slouching over to my side. After class when we were taking the subway, he kept on saying my name during our conversation and he was boasting about how he has this weird guy friend that keeps on asking him for advice since he's so smart and good at everything (I complimented him on the first night too about the fact that he's smart).





    During our third tutorial, our hands touched momentarily when he was flipping through the pages of my binder. When we got dismissed, we took the subway together again and when we went in, he went to the back and stood there but I didn't follow. I stayed at the entrance (there were no seats) and after a while, he ended up coming to my side and held on to the same pole as me and stood really close in front of me, face-to-face even when there were a lot of stand-able space on the subway. He kept on telling me how worried he was about the upcoming tests and told me all his studying plans.





    I tried not to over-analyze or be biased but I couldn't help but think that he had feelings towards me as well after all of that closeness. But now he hasn't showed up for a couple of times and last time when we had a midterm test, he seemed like a totally different person at the examination building since he was acting like he was all that when his friends were around.





    Should I just forget about him and move on? (I've tried but it's really difficult)Do any of you have advices on how I should go about dealing with this situation?
    no. but you've gotta make a move too, or else he'll think you're not interested.Do any of you have advices on how I should go about dealing with this situation?
    Again I give this advice 'just communicate tell him how you feel ..if he respects you he will be honest with you .